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Be different when it comes to On line dating Many of the same

Be different when it comes to On line dating  Many of the same

Summary: Be different when it comes to On line dating Many of the same moves work for Internet flirting that work for hometown flirting because all dating begins with successful flirting Here s how to pull it off Flirting successfully requires projecting confidence without being egotistical but if you go too far she may feel uncomfortable If you dont go far enough she may not be curious enough to go further So how do you achieve that point half way between wanted and rejected and do it online without being able to show her some flesh and blood eye contact or body language All you have is a computer internet connection and maybe belong to an online dating site right So how can this be done Try these 6 power tips and you will have success 1 Use humor Be light hearted funny and entertaining Make her eager to talk to you again Flirting should only be playful not life and death surgery so use your sense of humor No off color jokes or innuendo s please 2 Be a man she will respect Successful flirts have a positive outlook on life and feel good about themselves You need to transmit your feel good about myself factor An optimistic and self assured attitude attracts females like pollen attracts bees 3 Compliment her and do it often and do it sincerely Nothing smooths the way like recognizing her positive traits But don t overdo this Find something about her that she will recognize is a real compliment because she knows it fits her Do this and she will want to spend more time with you and if she pays you a compliment accept it with a sincere thank you Do not try to be Mr Humble That s too wimpy 4 Listen listen and listen some more Pay close attention to what she says and ask interesting questions She will reveal much of herself in what she says so get her to open up and talk about herself by asking lots of questions Make her feel like she is interesting and that you are interested in her The Listen Factor works wonders 5 Keep Your lust to yourself buddy Flirting does not include being explicit or being a jerk if the lady isnt responding to your suggestive overtures If she isnt interested in getting that cozy take the hint Change the subject or move on to the next prospect if you must but If you get a lot of rejections you should probably reconsider your dating goals The salesperson s rule is Quit when you get seven No s They are not going to buy What are you selling and how are you selling it Got it 6 Always send an email or text message after each exchange with your prospective date This ranks right up there with sending a Thank You note for a gift and it is vital to successful flirting It shows you are a sensitive guy You are a sensitive guy right Finally and most important of all don t be a phony when using these tips to your advantage Most women have emotional radar that will zero in on you and blow you out of the water Be honestly sincere when you use these tips You ll have the edge in your on line dating and maybe you ll find your real soul mate If not you will surely have lots of fun trying

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