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gay marriage? why is gay marriage being banned from some states? thats wrong to ban it in some of the states. this is a free country . they should have no right to ban it. what do you think of gay marriage? do you think its wrong? if you do think its wrong please explain. i do not think gay marriage is wrong. people can love whoever they want. it should not matter with who the person they love is. god loves everyone. it may not be "natural" or whatever. but, its not wrong.

Gay marriage? Despite your personal beliefs, how do you guys interpret why gays can't marry? If our government was sticking to the constitutional law of "separation of church and state", would this even be an issue? Call it whatever you want...civil unions, domestic partnership, marriage, etc--I'm not here to debate how the legal binding should be dubbed. But why are homosexuals being classified as second rate citizens here? Where's the Martin Luther King Jr of the Gay Rights Movement? Gay people have heartbeats too. Okay, also. For religious based folk, please keep in mind that this isn't a religious question---separation of church and state is a governmental policy that you've chosen to accept being an American, and I would prefer all religious beliefs kept out of this. Whether you follow the Torah, taoism, various interpretations of christianity, hinduism, or the Church of Elvis Presley--America is a melting pot of ideologies. That's um, part of makes this country so fantastic?

Gay Marriage? I want to hear what you think about it... To the Jesus people who think gay marriage is evil i want you to think about this before you answer... according to the bible eating shrimp is an abomination and so is wearing two different materials in your clothing at the same time... And to top if off not even 50 years ago people were using the bible to condemn interracial marriage... do you all still think its wrong?

GAY MARRIAGE???????????????? Do you think that MOST gays are truly interested in gay marriage all of a sudden or is this just the latest issue to rally around and create comraderie while getting attention? There have always been gays... why are they suddenly so interested in the heterosexual tradition of marriage?

GAY Marriage? Should heterosexuals really be telling homosexuals about marriage? In Denmark, homosexuals have been legally able to get hitched since 1989. But despite stereotypes of gay relationships as short-lived, the divorce rate among Danish homosexuals is only 17 percent, compared to 46 percent for heterosexuals. What are your views on this? No bashing. Uncle John: The Court issued an innovative ruling: since the provincial courts of appeal had ruled that the heterosexual definition of marriage was unconstitutional (a position strengthened by the Attorney General's refusal to appeal those rulings), it was unconstitutional across Canada, and to continue to restrict marriages in Yukon to opposite-sex couples would result in an unacceptable state of a provision's being in force in one jurisdiction and not another. Definitions change my friend. Gay used to mean happy.

GAY marriage? maybe some of u think I'm crazy or pointless but i don't get the "gay marriage" issue stuff. if u love a guy and he loves u back why do u want it to be official u could love each other, don't get me wrong or anything I'm (gay) but i don't believe in the marriage I do believe in love but marrying a guy these things r for the straight people. I'm not a religious man but marriage is a sacred thing and i know being gay is a sin cause all religions disapprove it but i keep on going i'm not proud of what i'm doing and i do know it's wrong , but continue on marrying a guy i think i reached TOP of all sins. and please stop with i fell sorry for u thanks

GaY MarriAgE??? what is your opinion on gay marriage....for or against???why or why not???...salamat

Is Gay Marriage is generational issue? Will people who are now children and teenagers vote to permit it? I teach fitth grade in Los Angeles. So talking about gay marriage is off the table. But I have a good friend who is also gay who teaches at Van Nuys High School. He says either very few high school students now oppose gay marriage, or they keep their mouth shut because it's not cool to be against gay marriage.

How would not legalizing gay marriage be a violation of the separation of Church and State? I am doing a paper for school and I am a bit confused on the subject of gay marriage. Would the separation of church and state be violated if gay marriage became legal or remained illegal? Can someone also give me valid reasons as to why gay marriage should be legalized? I am not pro gay marriage or anti gay marriage and I do mean to offend anyone with this question.

What kind of people compare gay marriage to slavery? Is it just me, or is this comparison beyond offensive and degrading? What are gay marriage rights supporters going to say next, that denying gay marriage is comparable to genocide? Do gay marriage rights supporters think that they are going to make people support gay marriage and gay adoption by having a victim mentality, having sob stories and being self-entitled bullies who force their beliefs onto others? It seems like no low is too low for them. I can't believe people are comparing gay marriage to slavery, it's just shocking and sickening.

What is the case against gay marriage in the United States? I am in full support of gay marriage. I believe that gays should be entitled to all of the same rights as straights. What I want to know is an informed case against gay marriage. Arguing for gay marriage here is redundant. Also, If you are for gay marriage and have beliefs of why people are opposed to it, try and hold your tongue. I want responses from people who are actually opposed to it. Thank you.

Is gay marriage the most important issue facing the United States? It appears that for many, the issue of gay marriage is most important issue today, well above the economy, joblessness, exploding debt and endless undeclared wars, with Iran scheduled to be our latest invasion. Personally, I don't care one way or the other about gay marriage and believe that the Federal government has no business whatsoever in the business of anyone's marriage. I understand though, that an oppressive government is interested only in power, control and taxation. How many Americans consider gay marriage one way or the other, among the most important issues we face today?

How many gay marriage ceremonies have been performed in Mass in Catholic Churches? It seems like the only thing anyone can say in opposition to gay marraige is that it would force churches to perform those ceremonies. OK, we have a great test to see if that's actually an issue. 1. Mass legalized gay marriage. 2. Catholic church is opposed to gay mariage 3. How many gay marraiges have been forced on the Catholic Church in Mass? That's Massachusetts....not the act of Mass http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Ak4XBWPKbNNV26EcHYRSlLnsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20090215190121AA91TPN Scroll down a little and you see this exact claim. This is about the 10th time I've seen it on here... It can't possibly happen RLP as everyone else on here knows. Churches can marry whoever they want and sure as heck can have denominational limits on who they marry. The answer is ZERO of course.

What makes gay marriage any different from an incestuous marriage between adults? And if you say incest is bad because it could lead to birth defects are you saying the only purpose of marriage is to produce offspring? If that's the case why allow gay marriage since they can't produce offspring? Besides there is birth control available or vasectomies etc. Logically what makes one worse than the other? Casey, thanks for the little lesson, now can you answer the question? Also homosexuality used to be illegal too so what's your point?

How does the anti-gay marriage crowd feel about straight couples marrying in civil ceremonies? I've heard some of the anti-gay marriage folks here argue that gays should have civil unions, but they shouldn't be allowed to marry, because of the religious ramifications of marriage. Does marriage always have a religious undertone, though? After all, there are plenty of straight couples who get married in civil ceremonies.

How does allowing gay marriage have anything to do with education? Why do so many people state that their child will be taught about gay marriage in school if gay marriages were legal? I don't recall hearing this argument nearly as frequently when civil unions became legal.

How could gay marriage possibly affect your own marriage in the eyes of God? Why would gay marriage be a threat to straight Christians? If a bunch of Satanists wanted to have a Christian church service some Sunday, it wouldn't mean a thing to you, and it certainly can't derail God. How is this bit of politics even important to you and your precious afterlife?

How is an arranged marriage so much more acceptable than a gay marrige? Arranged marriages are definitely not illegal anywhere in the world, and the royal wedding is receiving so many praises. However, no politician or company would ever dare to openly accept gay marriage as even tolerable. Shouldn't a gay marriage based on love be more acceptable than a marriage arranged for any other reason? Is marriage more about traditions and religion than it is about love?

How does gay marriage affect tradition or religion? I am just wondering once again on the opinion of people for this issue/debate. I have to debate on it in class tomorrow. In my case I am against gay marriage for the debate, but I am for Civil Unions. I don't think the ppl that are gay should get the title, because they already have C.U.'s. Also, this can affect the tradition of people that don't want it, ect... How would you solve this issue, according to my case? -if you can please use statistics and information you know to be against the issue/debate.

How much percentage of American people support gay marriage? I am doing research concerning public opinion. I wonder what is the public opinion about gay marriage? I think, the society does not approve the discrimination of gay people. But the legalization of gay marriage seems so slow too. I wonder why it is like this? Is there any data of public poll about gay marriage?

Opponents of gay marriage: Should we outlaw divorce since it is currently the biggest threat to marriage? If the concern over gay marriage is the idea that it will threaten marriage or the family, it would make sense to outlaw the biggest threat there is to families and marriage: divorce. If we outlaw divorce, it should show people how sacred marriage is don’t you think?

Is gay marriage the same as legal incest. Say a father and willing daughter or son being able to marry? I recently had someone state to me that if you believe in equality for all, speaking of gay marriage, then you should agree with incest between consenting adults or that makes you a bigot. Any thoughts on this issue.

Why was a gay judge allowed to ask a gay marriage question to Miss California during the Miss USA pageant? They only asked her that because she is from California and was expected to say 'YES ,i totally support gay marriage' Why would they allow a gay judge to ask that question? Of course he is going to score her a zero if she doesn't have the same opinion on gay marriage as he does. She should have won because she's beautiful and stuck to her beliefs and gave an honest answer instead of telling that judgmental queen perez hilton what he wanted to hear.

How is gay marriage in any way comparable to marriage between an adult person and an animal or a child? So many people like to argue that if you legalize gay marriage, you may as well also legalize marriage between adult humans and animals and children. How is a marriage contract that is binding between two CONSENTING ADULTS in any way comparable to pedophilia or zoophilia? After all, a child and an animal aren't capable of participating in any sort of contract.

Why do some believe that legalizing gay marriage would lead to marriage to animals and relatives? After all, gay marriage would take place between two consenting adults, and a dog, cat, or horse would never be able to give its consent. Also, there are laws on the books against marrying relatives, thanks to concerns about inbreeding. Unlike incest, at least gay marriage wouldn't lead to birth defects!

Do people who oppose gay marriage have the wrong impression of gay people? Do those who oppose gay marriage think that all gay people are liberals who want to destroy the family and marriage? That might be the impression they get because the media certainly does not tell the whole story. Not all gay people are liberal. In fact, many gay people own businesses and are fiscally conservative/libertarian.

How does legalizing Gay marriage benefit society? I am talking about benefiting everyone besides the homosexuals? The only good thing it would do is lower the number of orphans. If it was legal, gays would also get tax cuts, degrade the meaning of marriage, teach children it is right to be gay, gays would be allowed, and could even be welcomed to publicly show affect. How would gay marriage benefit society instead of destroying it?

How does supporting gay marriage make me any less of a conservative? As a CONSERVATIVE I support the sacred institution of marriage, and all that it represents. I support loyalty, commitment, and personal responsibility. So how does it make me any less of a CONSERVATIVE if I support a loving and committed gay or lesbian couple who want to make a lifelong commitment to one another? Or would the other so called "conservatives" prefer an orgy of gays and lesbians throwing parades in their faces?

What is comparisons to gay and straight marriage? I'm writing a paper on the comparisons and the differences between gay and straight marriage. I am for gay marriage, but can't be biased in the paper. I need similarities that aren't biased.

Are gay marriage rights really about equal rights or just getting revenge on the religious? I have one gay friend who says he wants gay marriage because he wants equal rights. I suggested why not lobby congress to make "civil unions" EQUAL 100% in rights to marriage? It would be easier to get the average american to support and he would get his equal rights. He said this was unacceptable and would only settle for "Marriage" rights. It sounds to me he is more interested in taking something away from people of religion rather than actually obtaining equal rights. Is this the opinion of most gays or is he in the minority? Your thoughts?

How should gay marriage be decided, by the states or federally? And do you personally support gay marriage? Civil unions?

How come people against gay marriage are considered, "ignorant"? I noticed that when people are like, "GO GAY MARRIAGE" and are all for it, they get claps and cheers and are considered open minded and everything. But isn't everyone supposed to have an opinion? If someone say's that they just don't believe in gay marriage but they aren't homophobes it's like becoming a international terrorist or something. Everyone calls you ignorant and so on. It's very hypocritical because those that are FOR gay marriage can indeed have an opinion but those against it are supposed to sit their and not voice their opinion. Nice.

If legalizing gay marriage does lead to a slippery slope, how will that affect you? Let's say that people are right and legalizing gay marriage leads to people marrying cousins, multiple people, pets and kitchen appliances. How will you personally be harmed by that?

How does gay marriage negatively affect you? 1. Does it turn your kids gay? 2. Does it ruin your straight marriage? 3. Does it ruin your sex life? 4. Does it cause gas prices to go up? What are the negative personal effects gay marriage has or can have on you that cause you to oppose it?

How uneducated are people who think that gay marriage will lead to men marrying animals? An animal can't consent to marriage. A child can't consent to marriage. A corpse can't consent to marriage. Marriage with an immediate family member can produce birth defects for the children; gay marriage does not do this. Why is this so complicated for so many people? Sources: nearly every single time someone posts about gay marriage, you have someone writing about how it will lead to people marrying farm animals! Dumb!

How would legalizing gay marriage affect your life? I'm just curious because normally people who complain about gay marriage are found in this section. So can someone tell me how legalizing gay marriage will affect your life or your families life? And please don't tell me "because gay people kissing in public is gross", because i'm straight and I think that even straight couples kissing in public is kind of annoying and gross. And don't say "because the Bible says so" because that doesn't explain how their love affects your life. Thank you for answering @krazyabouthim- you sure are crazy.....

Why is gay marriage projected to be a liberal issue and not just a gay issue? Obama says he is against it in speeches, The Democrat Party is against, the more liberal states voted against it like California, even in France gay marriage isnt legal. This doesnt sound like a liberal issue to me, just a gay issue. I wouldnt say its a civil rights issue, maybe a civil entitlement issue since it involves entitlements and not rights.

How many countries recognize gay marriage and why do gays try to paint America as being alone against it? What changed in society for us to even consider gay marriage as something anywhere close to "normal"? How much further will our society decay over the next 50 years? Any predictions? Where iin the constitution does it protect mens right to marry men?

GAY MArRIAGe....................? i need some help on gay marrige...we're having a debate about it in school and i need some information and opinions on gay marrige are you for it or against it?

If gay marriage is legal in a state does it mean that the couple qualifies for the others' health insurance? Is the marriage still recognized if the couple moves to a state that does not recognize gay marriage?

If gay marriage were legalized in America, would there need to be an amendment? I often hear proponents of gay marriage calling for a Constitutional amendment, but aren't amendments only passed to AMEND the Constitution? The Constitution doesn't define marriage, does it? If not, shouldn't a federal law be enough?

How would a gay marriage in California work? My gf's sister and her partner just got engaged recently, and they're planning a wedding next year. We live in CA, and as you know, Prop 8 has passed and gay marriage is not legal. Yet, they're still planning on getting married HERE on the sandy beaches of San Diego, so how would this work? Is it going to be legit with paperwork and such, I don't understand how this will play out... I'm real excited for them, I wish it were easier.

How serious is discrimination against Gays and why is the legalization of gay marriage important? Under federal law, more than 1,100 rights and benefits to marriage exist, none of which is available to gay and lesbian couples. Yes, you can do some complicated estate planning, but virtually all of the rights marriage conveys on a federal level are simply unavailable without full marriage rights. Social Security and survivor benefits, tax benefits, Family and Medical Leave Act, immigration rights, estate taxes and equal access to a spouse’s retirement and benefits packages, including health care, are the obvious choices, but many of the federal rights of marriage are things most people never think of, such as spousal immunity in federal prosecutions.

Gay marriage advocates: Should there be a ban on marriage between ANY consenting adults? And I do mean ANY. If so explain why. And before you list incest and say that could lead to birth defects... Isn't that insinuating that the only purpose of marriage is to reproduce? If reproduction is the primary reason for marriage then shouldn't gay marriage be banned because it cannot lead to offspring?

How exactly will gay marriage ruin the fabric of society and family values? I am sick of this argument from the religious zealots and all the other nutters out there. But they have not given one example of how gay marriage will destroy society as a whole. I always thought that divorce did a great job ar tearing families apart. Just want to hear you thoughts on the matter. Helen S. Well said. That is the real problem If only sterilization were an option.

Will I live to see gay marriage legalized in my life time? I live in the USA (so called Land of the Free) and gay marriage is only legal in a few states. Will I live to see all 50 states adopt gay marriage? Me and my parents are planning on starting a petition to get gay marriage legalized in Kansas; will it happen?

Gay marriage: what have been the dire, unintended consequences to date? Maryland has passed legislation allowing gay marriage, despite warnings by some state representatives that "unintended consequences" affecting thousands of innocent residents are sure to follow and that in some vague way, religious freedom is being threatened. Seven states already have allowed gay marriage. Canada never opposed it in the first place. Has the sky fallen yet? What has been the unexpected adverse fallout in those places? What is it that we need to prepare for?

If gay marriage is legalized what about others? If gay marriage shows equality for all shouldn't people who engage in partner- swapping,polygamy,bestiality,NAMBLA,etc. have marriage rights also? wouldn't it be bigoted for someone to protest for only gay marriage and then say its not cool for someone else to do the same for themselves?

Should opponents of gay marriage be forced into gay marriages, and made to live like a married couple? I think it would be a just punishment if opponents of gay marriage were forced into gay marriages and had to have gay sex at least two or three times a week. I think that Rush Limbaugh and Glen Beck would make a happy couple.

If gay marriage was legalized would gays and lesbians be more likely to vote Republican? It has long been understood that gays and lesbians vote Democrat because they are more likely to get their right to marry approved. Are the gays and lesbians conservative otherwise? If gay marriage is legalized would it mean we'd see votes swing back in favor to Republicans?

What is your stance on gay marriage and what are your reasons? The rules are you cannot comprise your reason with any religious logic. When I say marriage I am speaking of the cut and dry laws that would surround the subject. This means I also don't want answers that just say "Because its gross!". In addition I've also found many trying to give me the cut and dry no by stating that it would create tax loopholes. Reality: A man and a woman could create the same loopholes just as easily so none of that thank you very much. Procede in your answering. I am trying to look at this from a fair unbiased prospective and so far I can't come up with any reasons why gay marriage shouldn't be legal. If you can make a fair arguement otherwise, I welcome your answer. I'm not saying anyone's religion is wrong ,but it shouldn't play a part in the legalities of the situation. If Athiests are allowed marriage, why not gays? This is the arguement used for why marriage is a sacred bond between man and wife ,but marriage ,whether you like it or not, is a legal oath taken by two individualsa and by law is not influence by religion. This is my reasoning for trying to exclude religious viewpoints. I am being very unbiased. It is unbiased because too many people would like to passionify their answer to make a big deal about it. I'm simply stating to use raw logic without emotion. This means I'm asking you to also be unbiased. Its like saying "Chocolate is better than vanilla". This cannot be proven ,but anyone can have an opinion on the subject. Its just that; I don't want opinions. I want cold hard facts and logic. The difference between gay couples and sex predators is that they are acting willingly on both sides. Yes, there is gay rape and that is a crime ,but two people of consenting age going into that situation is nothing more than sex whether it be gay or straight. I bet many people think that morbidly obese people having sex is "gross" ,but I'm pretty sure there have been no rallies to keep them from marrying. Get it? There are many straight couples that are unable to reproduce. Just a tip, I'm not gay or anything like that. I'm just looking for a logical answer for the LAW side of this situation. Whether a couple marries or not they will probably still be together so lets speak in hypothetical terms. Say we're speaking in terms of calling gays birds and straights bees.(just sticking with the classic format here) I can fully understand not liking something ,but I'm about doing what is right without the "like factor" involved. For example: I don't like pickles ,but I'm not going stop anyone else from eating them.

Can you give me some good reasons why gay marriage should be legal? I have nothing against gay people, nor do i know why other people wouldn't let them get married. I am writing an english paper on a law i would like to see enforced in my area and i chose gay marriage. What are some logical, statistical, and emotional reasons why gay marriage should be allowed? Thanks!

After gay marriage, what is the next most important thing concerning LGBT issues rights? Like if suddenly gay marriage became legal everywhere, what will be the next area of concern?

Once Gay marriage is Legalized will Republicans be the first to Marry? Following in the footsteps or republican politicians playing footsie in public washrooms and evangelical priests living secret lives. Once the gay marriage ban is lifted will the republicans just step out of the closet. Do they want it banned because they don't want to raise suspicion?

How will gay marriage make your life any worse? Why can't we just let everybody have the same rights? I would rather see a gay couple happily married raising an adopted child than a broken family with an abusive father raising one. Do you really think that the straight, bad parents are more deserving of marriage and children than the gay family that loves each other and their child? And please don't bring religion into this. Everyone is free to practice whatever religion they please, and no one is at liberty to force their religion onto anybody else. This is a free country, ya know? And as George Washington said, “Every man, conducting himself as a good citizen, and being accountable to God alone for his religious opinions, ought to be protected in worshipping the Deity according to the dictates of his own conscience.” Nobody is trying to force anyones lifestyle down their throat. Telling two people that you don't know that they are not allowed to be married, how is that not forcing a lifestyle choice down their throat?

What is the secular reason to ban gay marriage? I've been trying to figure out any secular reason for banning gay marriage and I can't figure it out. If we have separation of church and state, why is the government still trying to ban gay marriage?

How is gay marriage going to ruin society? This is not a question for people who believe in the basic human rights of gay people, and I don't want scripture. I just want to understand how exactly people against gay marriage, and more importantly families with two same sex parents believe these things are bad for society. What are some actual problems you see? I need to understand this side. 10 points for the answer that makes the most sense (not the one I agree with, although I will give thumbs up). And if you have some actual proof of your point you will get more credibility.

How would a anti-gay marriage person respond to this response? First, I am not against same sex marriages, I am just wondering. People who say they are against gay marriage say that a portion of the purpose of marriage is to pro-create, and since same sex couples can not pro-create they should not be able to get married. However, what about heterosexual couples that can not have children? My wife had her uterus removed at 18 because she had uterine cancer, we are unable to have children. We also have a close couple that do not want to have children, because they work too much. Should these people not be able to get married?

If you have a gay marriage in New Hampshire and move to Texas would your marriage remain legal? Would your marriage still be legal in Texas? Is one's right to a gay marriage to getting married or to staying married?

What's the difference between gay marriage and a "domestic partnership"? Wikipedia is so annoying.? I was reading which states allow gay marriage and saw that my state only allows "domestic partnerships". So, naturally, I clicked on the blue word and the page contradicted almost everything it said before! So can you tell me what's the difference between that and marriage?

How come conservative republicans are against gay marriage? How come conservative republicans are against gay marriage? They talk about the sanctity of marriage but they are the first to cheat on their wives. Just wanted to know the rational behind it.

How would gay marriage be taught in school? A lot of ppl who are against gay marriage have been saying that gay marriage would be taught in school if it were legalized. How would that work, especially considering heterosexual marriage isnt taught in school?

What happens if I go to another state for a gay marriage then come back to California? If I go to CT, Iowa, Mass, etc. to get married and then come back to California where I live, will it recognize my gay marriage? Which states that haven't legalized gay marriage will recognize gay marriages that occured in other states? I wonder if we'll be able to file my state and federal taxes as a married couple? Thanks!

How many here oppose gay marriage not because gays are deviant but you oppose the whole sexual revolution? Meaning you oppose the decoupling of marriage, sex, and procreation, and gay marriage is just the final blow?

How does gay marriage make your life worse? For those who oppose gay marriage, it must make your life worse in some way for two people of the same sex to marry one another. Otherwise you wouldn't care...unless your just a butt hole. Are you all butt holes or do gay marriages actually make your life worse in some way? Marriage is government regulated, NOT bible regulated. So no religious input.

How does allowing or disallowing Gay Marriage affect the average person? Is there something straight people miss if we disallow it? We can't even get straight marriage right, why move on to gay?

What are your stances on gay marriage and abortion? I am against all form of homosexuality marriage and abortion. What about you?? Anti gay and abortion all the way!

What do you think about gay marriage and should it be legal or illegal? Im doing a project for school about gay marriage and I am curious about what you have to say about it. Please give me an answer and a good reason for your answer. Thank You.

What do you think about gay marriage and should it be legal or illegal? Im doing a project for school about gay marriage and I am curious about what you have to say about it. Please give me an answer and a good reason for your answer. Thank You.

Who agrees that Vermont's legalization of gay marriage via the legislature was a huge blow to conservatives? Who agrees that Vermont's legalization of gay marriage via the legislature was a blow to conservatives who scream "activist judges" whenever a state court legalizes gay marriage? Now they can't whine about activist judges in Vermont, since this was done by the people's elected representatives. Of course, the more important question now is: who will the conservatives blame now since they don't have the "activist judges" to pick on?

What do you think about gay marriage being illegal? I personally am for gay marriage being illegal, it isn't natural no matter what you say. If men were supposed to be with other men then a man would have a vagina and a penis.

Has anyone considered the slippery slope argument dealing with gay marriage? If it follows that gay marriage will lead to polygamy,bestiality, and incest marriage, then wouldn't the logical sequence dictate that none of this would have occurred if it weren't for heterosexual marriage? Mean, didn't heterosexual marriage lead to gay marriage? If there were no marriage then no one would be arguing for marriage rights?

How does gay marriage affect a country? Should gay marriage be legal in a country? How does it affect the country? What are the consequences of gay marriage?

How will gay marriage affect our children? I'm wondering because a lot of people say it will, and I'm wondering how. Will they teach it in schools? Will they have special classes for it? Or will they just look at certain people of the same sex and and be like, Cool! ? And, in your opinion, do you honestly think there is something else behind this excuse for the arguement over gay marriage? Thank you.

Why is gay marriage not legal everywhere if there is a separation of church and state? Since opposition of gay marriage comes from religious belief, why is it not allowed in every state? Isn't there supposed to be a separation of church and state? If so, how is banning gay marriage constitutional? Since when does marriage have to do with being natural? Are married couples forced to have kids? No, that point is invalid. So again i ask this question, because saying its not natural is irrelevant.

What are gay marriage advocates opinion on polygamy within a group of consenting adults? How can anyone who supports gay marriage deny the "happiness" of responsible adults, even if they are relatives, who wish to live with and support multiple spouses if they are happy in such an arrangement?

Exactly how many gay couples have to marry before the sanctity of YOUR marriage is destroyed? Is there a specific number? At what number of gay marriages does your marriage become less special? I've heard all about how gay marriage destroys the sanctity of marriage, so I'm just looking for some specifics here.

How Is Gay Marriage Different Than Unions? Specifically, what benefits does gay marriage have that unions do not? This is in regards to gay marriage in the United States.

Gay MARRIAGE? I ASKED THIS GUY BEFORE ON WHY IT WAS SO HARD TO HAVE IT LEGILIZED 1 GUY SAID I CANT MARRY A MAN BUT I CAN MARRY A WOMAN LIKE YOU SO HE SAID WE HAD EQUAL RIGHTS BUT IF THE TABLES WERE TURNED AND GAY MARRIAGE WAS LEAGLE AND STRAIT MARRIAGE WAS BANNEND WOULD HETRO'S BE OK WITH THAT WOULD THEY STILL SEE EQUAL RIGHTS

When will gays understand that gay marriage will never happen in America? Gays have lost something like 30 out of 31 gay marriage ballot amendments, often by huge margins. This is because Americans simply do not accept gay relationships. When will gays understand this, and stop trying to press for special rights? Why do they think they have any chance of success? They are clearly on the wrong side of public opinion and the wrong side of history. When will they understand this simple fact?

Should gay marriage be something that the public is allowed to vote on? For example, was it right for prop. 8 to be voted on in California. While at first most people would probably think no, because it is an issue of human rights and everyone being equal, a marriages also has many legal implications. It actually financially affects many people if gay marriage is legal. SO what say you?

How is it fair to compare gay marriage to bestiality or pedophilia? How is what two consenting adults who love each other do in their own homes the same as one adult having sex with a child or animal who have no consent whatsoever? And why is it that when you think of gay you only think of sex? Isn't there more to marriage then sex?

Is a presidential candidates stance on gay marriage and abortion important to you? I guess i'm asking because i've always said that there are more important things to worry about (as it pertains to pres. candidates) than how they feel about gay marriage and abortion and I just wanna know if anyone agrees or disagrees with me.

What does the constitution say about gay marriage? If we’re supposed to abide by the constitution, then why is there even an argument about gay marriage? Isn’t that a debate for the churches? Whatever happened to separate of church and state?

What's the best way to classify the political objections against gay marriage? Here where I live everyone gets to marry whoever they want so it's hard to explain the rationals of the opponents to people for who gay marriage is natural and evident, who would see a ban on gay marriage as apartheid. How should I explain to them the reasons the US does not have gay marriage? Any idea? Thanks in advance

How awesome is it gay marriage was overturned in Maine? Goes to show you Americans don't want it. Every time it's been voted on its been shot down, the only way it can pass is if politicians and judges ram it down our throat which is unconstitutional. I'ts not the same thing as marriage, marriage is a man and woman, gay is two of the same sex, how is that the same? It is not.

What is the Republican platform on gay marriage and how does it fit into tea parties? You guys are against gay marriage but you are throwing tea bagging parties? Will Thomas Payne be there to be tea bagged or to tea bag?

How about really protecting marriage? Along with the gay marriage issue, how about protecting it from divorce? More lives are impacted by divorce than the gay marriage, yet I don't see or hear anyone talking of reforming the no fault divorce laws. I know in the Bible it says homosexuality is an abomination but it also says God hates divorce. Is this hypocritical? I mean aren't we selectively legislating morality? I'd like to see no fault divorce done away with in order to really hold up the institution of marriage.

Why are Repubs trying to make gay marriage a federal issue instead of a state issue? In 2004 & 2006 they tried pushing these federal constitutional amendments to ban gay marriage. Why can't they just leave it to the states? Why can't they follow the 10th amendment and enforce state rights?

What gives people the right to try to ban gay marriage? Is it just because it is a sin, from a religious perspective? If so, isn't that just religious persecution? Marriage isn't a religious institution, after all. Two atheists can go down to the courthouse and get a legal marriage license... unless they're gay. If that's not persecution, then I don't know what is. If we're going to be using the Bible to pass laws, then shouldn't we also ban atheist marriages? That's a sin, too. What do you think the real motive here is? Outright gay hating? Do most of these people think that just being gay should also be illegal?

How does gay marriage effect straight marriage in any way? I am looking for answers from people who actually think gay marriage does this but anyone can respond. :) I just don't get how anyone could think that way.

How exactly is gay marriage going to destroy America? I hear people, both Democrats and Republicans say that allowing gay marriage would destroy "traditional values" and that America is a "Christian nation." Wake up people, and read the Constitution, America is not a Christian nation, it is a secular nation and you need to wake up to the fact that a lot of American's don't have the same religious values as you do and don't wish to live under a theocracy. How exactly does allowing two consenting adults to enter into a union put the nation in jeopardy?

Why should gay marriage be looked at as a top priority in the election? There are a lot of things way more important than same sex marriage. The economy, the war, healthcare, taxes, crime, the military, security, terrorism, ect... Why should gay marriage be so important in the election even if there is a crisis happening? Why should something so irrelevant be placed higher than things more crucial. If 2 people of any gender live in the same house and pay the bills with each other, what difference would getting married make if they are already basically married?

Can gay people possibly screw up marriage any more than the straight Christians already have? In the US, 60% of first marriages end in divorce. According to Christianity, adultery is a sin, and then they go giving out condoms in schools. Even in shows like Jerry Springer, they have a priest reading his bible and making marriage ceremonies. And now they actually have the guts to complain about gay marriage? GIMME A ****ING BREAK!

Gay marriage is now legal in Maine. But could it be overturned through a referendum? The Governor of Maine said that there could be a referendum to validate the gay marriage law. If there is a referendum, do you think the voters will vote for gay marriage or against it?

What is the difference between civil union and gay marriage? Civil unions are legal in most places and give the partners the same rights as married couples get; ie insurance benefits, next of kin issues, etc. If a gay couple is allowed a civil union why is it so important that they allow gay marriage? Isn't civil union basically the same thing?

What percentage Is there for a gay marriage and straight marriage to get divorced? I'm curious what are most likely percentage's of gay marriage lasting or straight marriage?

Is gay marriage to whites the equivilent of what amnesty is to Mexicans? Why are whites so obsessed with gay marriage. Why not keep it in the closet like normal people..

Does supporting gay marriage mean you personally have to support homosexual people? Some gay marriage supporters love to say "respect the difference" and "everyone should support homosexuals." Personally I think the thought of being gay is extremely gross and revolting, but I understand why we have to allow homosexuals to marry. Is this thinking ok?

What good has it done to our public school systems to accept "gay marriage" as being normal? In high schools there are school-wide assemblies to celebrate "gay" marriage, featuring speakers, including principals teachers at the schools themselves, who have "married" their "gay" partners and are starting families either through adoption, in the case of males, or artificial insemination, in the case of lesbians. In middle schools, teachers discuss gay sex with their students as explicitly as they desire. In elementary schools, kindergartners are given picture-books telling them that "gay spouses" are just another kind of family, like their own parents. When a parent of a kindergartner strongly insisted on being notified when teachers were discussing homosexuality or transgenderism with his son, the school had him arrested and put in jail overnight. Federal judges have ruled that because "gay" marriage is legal in Massachusetts, the schools actually have a duty to normalize homosexual relationships to children and that schools have no obligation to notify parents or to let them opt out their children. Literature in favor of "gay" marriage, how it is now a normal part of society, is routinely handed out to students. School libraries across the state, from elementary school through high school, now have shelves of books to normalize homosexual behavior and its lifestyle in the minds of children, some of them quite explicit and even pornographic. Parents' complaints are ignored or met with hostility. It has become commonplace in Massachusetts schools for principals and teachers to display prominently photographs of their "gay spouses" and bring those "spouses" to school functions. Gay Days are considered necessary in schools to fight "intolerance" and "homophobia." High schools and even middle schools across the state now hold GLBT (gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender) Appreciation Days. They celebrate homosexual "marriage" and move forward to other behaviors such transvestism and transsexuality. The Massachusetts legislature now gives tax monies to homosexual activist groups. In particular, the Massachusetts Commission on Gay Lesbian Bisexual, and Transgender Youth, made up of the most radical and militant homosexual groups, in 2008 received close to a million dollars to target children in the public schools. Homosexual "marriage" now hangs over our state like a hammer with the force of law. And it has only just begun. It is pretty clear that the homosexual movement's obsession with marriage is not because large numbers of "gays" actually want to marry each other. Rather, this is about putting the legal stamp of approval on homosexuality and imposing it with force throughout the various social and political institutions of a society that would never accept it otherwise. Your readers have been forewarned from our Massachusetts experience.

What is the constitutional basis for banning gay marriage? Using the Constitution and Supreme Court cases, how can one argue against gay marriage? This is for a government debate.

Since when is marriage not a secuar issue and why would gay marriage appeal to all Christianities? It's like some religion taught you that eating healthy is a way to connect to God and than you wouldn't let atheists eat healthy. As for religion based marriage, America has freedom of religion. I'm certain there's a religion or a Christianity that would see gay marriage as valid. Else, there is no such thing as America having freedom of religion and is thus a theocracy.

What is the argument against gay marriage? I never understood why gay marriage is disallowed is many states. Gays pays taxes, they're law abiding citizens, so why can't they get married and be miserable like the rest of the heterosexual married couples in America?

How come people against gay marriage are told to be tolerant of others beliefs? yet those people who are for gay marriage are completely intolerant of apposing viewpoints?

How are bans against gay marriage Constitutional? The only argument against gay marriage is based on the Bible. Take religion out of the discussion and it's basically a Civil Rights issue. Aren't gay marriage bans a violation of the First Amendment? Why hasn't this been argued in court yet?

What state will allow gay marriage next? Gay marriage is allowed in 3 states, CA, CT and MA. What will be the next states to accept gay marriage? When? Will it happen?

How would gay marriage be taught in school? A lot of ppl who are against gay marriage have been saying that gay marriage would be taught in school if it were legalized. How would that work, especially considering heterosexual marriage isnt taught in school?

What would your reaction be to witness a gay marriage proposal at another table of a restaurant? People seem to be preoccupied with the sex lives of the gay community, but what about questioning something deeper here? I have seen wedding proposals are restaurants, I was a waiter when I was in college. But with the inclusion of gay marriage in some states now, how would you react if two girls or two guys proposed to each other in a restaurant or some such public place. Just curious.

Will gay rights advocates try to use the courts to force gay marriage on the Catholic Church? This is my big fear. With gay marriage now being legal, what's to stop them from hiring lawyers and charge the Church with discrimination or human rights abuses for refusing to marry homosexuals?

What secular reason is there to shoot down gay marriage? As unpopular as many people find it to be, there is no real reason to shoot down gay marriage. Only people affected by this should be able to vote on it, am I right?

Are there any countries where Gay marriage is performed & fully recognized as equal to heterosexual marriage ? There is a strong movement to legalize gay marriage in the U.S.A. Proponents of marriage rights seek to obtain the same recognition and rights as have traditionally married heterosexual couples. I am curious whether there are currently any provinces/countries outside of the USA that recognize this form of marriage.

A question for gay marriage opponents. How do you feel about those who never get married at all? You say that gay marriage hurts traditional marriage so what about those who never get married in their life? Since they bring down the rate of people who engage in traditional marriage wouldn't you have to say that they are hurting traditional marriage too? Should the government come in and force these people to get married in order to "save" traditional marriage?

is not recognizing gay marriage to be legal in every state unconstitutional? According to the full faith and credit clause in the constitution, if I (a female) get married (to a male) in Texas and move to Vermont, the state of Vermont must recognize and accept my marriage certificate since it is a public record. So why is it that if a homosexual couple gets married in Vermont, (where gay marriage is legal), then moves to Texas, they are not considered "married"? Both marriage certificates are public records and should be accepted and respected by other states, but they arent. Is this unconstitutional? Im not asking if gay marriage is morally right or wrong. Just if in regards to the full faith and credit clause, it is unconstitutional to deny it.

Why is it that people who oppose gay marriage don't fight harder against divorce? It seems that if protecting marriage is the number one issue, then they should campaign to make it harder to get a divorce. That's a much more direct threat to straight marriages than gay marriage. And it certainly negatively affects children. And talk about teaching kids the wrong values.

Should pro-gay-marriage advocates organize a boycott of dictionaries and other reference materials? I was just reading my dictionary, and for marriage it says: the social institution under which a man and woman establish their decision to live as husband and wife by legal commitments; the legal or religious ceremony that formalizes the decision of a man and woman to live as husband and wife; the formal declaration or contract by which act a man and a woman join in wedlock. Obviously Webster must be a bigot. Are gay activists planning a boycott yet? Will it include all reference materials, or just the "tough parts"? Kyle - what are you talking about?? Moses married a Cushite thousands of years ago. Where do you do your research? While I'm thinking about it...Boaz married a Moabite, David a Hittite, Rahab was a Canaanite....I could go on Kyle - Regardless, I am not seeing that in the dictionary. You are missing my point I think. I just want to make sure I am not referencing bigot materials. Do I need to throw out my dictionary or what?

Why is gay marriage considered a controversal issues? Gay marriage bans were on the ballot in 30 states and it passed 30 different times most times passing by large margins..It passed in the most liberal state in the union, california TWICE. So why is gay marriage considered controversalwhen it's clearly the popular choice?

How do you feel about gay marriage as far as religion goes? How do you feel about gay marriage based on your religious or spiritual views? Thanks.

Where is gay marriage prohibited in the Bible? I am curious because I have heard some people say that the Bible doesn't actually address gay marriage specifically. Please, I am just interested in learning the specific passages or places in the Bible where it is proscribed.

Is prohibiting Gay marriage an intrusion of Church into Government? It could be said that prohibiting gay marriage would be implementing a certain set of morals and ethics into our government. Do you think that religion still holds influence in the government? Does government in ideology have ethics at all? Should it be legal for our government to deny someone their "pursuit of happiness"? What is your opinion?

Why did the supreme court rule in favor of gay marriage to begin with? What is the reason that the supreme court ruled in favor of gay marriage to begin with? please provide factual sources.

What's wrong with teaching children about gay marriage in school? What's the fear about children learning about gay marriage? What do you think will happen if gay marriage is taught in school? I'm watching a recording of Dr. Phil show on same-sex marriage. How would the people who oppose teaching gay marriage to children feel if the schools taught that same-sex marriage wasn't right? Would they still oppose teaching children that same-sex marriage is wrong?

Anti-gay marriage ppl: How sad is your life that you feel the need to interfere with others? ? How will 2 gay people getting married have any effect on your life? I am curious. Anyone can answer, but it's aimed for those against gay marriage.

What are the negative consequences of allowing gay marriage? I know this is a sensitive topic. Thus, I urge you all to be polite and respectful. I'm genuinely interested in knowing why people oppose gay marriage. I'm a married heterosexual and I honestly don't know why allowing homosexual marriages would affect me. Your thoughts?

What do you think of this solution to the gay marriage issue? Since conservatives and Christians don't want gay marriage "forced on them", what about this solution? Conservatives, Christians, Jews, Muslims, and in general anybody who doesn't approve of gay marriage, is not allowed to marry one of the same gender. Gay people, both male and female, is allowed to marry one of the same gender. Nobody who doesn't like gay marriage is going to get anything forced on them. Great huh? :D

Is the fact a gay couple can't produce offspring REALLY an issue in allowing gay marriage? When I see a Christian who opposes gay marriage try to give secular reasons why we should not allow it (I say secular, although religious reasons do seem to leek into it constantly) one of the main things they talk about is that gay people cannot naturally have a family and produce offspring. Is this truely an issue? Do we not let infertile straight couples get married? Or would Christians like to outlaw that to for what they call 'secular' reasons? 'No one has ever heard a Christian say what you are claiming.' Please look at the answers to a question a few below this one, ignoramous, thats what sparked me to ask THIS question. We on R&S hear this 'reason' every single day. Why do you think I asked it? Crying out loud..

On the issue of gay marriage should church and state mix? On any other matter I'd say no, but this is a moral matter and ,as a christian, I think the church should have it's say. One mistake people have made is looking at the church as one entity, when they should look at them as separate people who have the same belief. That's how gay's are. It's the same thing. Gay marriage is an abomination of God's word ,and law, and should not be legalized. To Jason marriage is a sacred bond between man and woman. And any true pastor would not marry a gay couple because he knows it's not right.

What are good points on a persuasive speech about gay marriage and being agaisnt it? I am against gay marriage and I am going to do my speech on it.. My speech has to be 5 minutes long and i need help..

Someone explain to me how the heck gay marriage would effect our schools? Does this make sense to anyone? I keep hearing that gay marriage will confuse our kindergarten kids because they don't understand it...I don’t remember learning anything related to marriage or relationships when I was in kindergarten. Seriously, all you who are voting yes on prop 8 only have the word of the Bible behind you. All your other reasons are just pathetic. Religion should have no place in making laws. You have the right to believe what you want, if you think gay marriage is wrong then fine, its your choice. But you don't have the right to ruin the choices and lives of others.

Is the argument over gay marriage about rights or terminology? In California there is the ongoing debate about Prop 8 and a ban on gay marriage. I'm a bit confused on some of the details. Is the non-hetero community trying to get legal rights which are not currently available to them, in the form of forming a legally recognized union (whatever it may be called) between two people? Or is this about having the right to refer to legally recognized unions between non-hetero partners as "marriage"?

Where is the logic in banning gay marriage besides religious beliefs? I just don't really get why it should be banned other than the religious reasons people have proposed before. The way I see it, if you don't like gay marriage, then don't do it. But I'm curious to see other sides of it, so if you have some ideas, please share them! I like to know the other sides of things rather than just holding one opinion. Thanks!

What's the difference between a gay marriage and a civil union? Besides the fact that a civil union is legal and gay marriage isn't. I was wondering if there's any specific differences.

Why do people still criticize gay marriage by bringing up beastiality? The argument goes something like this: "We can't allow gay people to marry because then next thing you know they'll be wanting to legalize marriage between man and horse or man and dog and we can't have that!!" Nobody is arguing for legalized beastiality! That has nothing to do with gay marriage at all! Who knows what a non-sequitur is? I feel like talking about gay marriage right now, deal with it right wingers.

How long will it be before the majority of states recognize gay Marriage? Iowa, just yesterday made it legal for gays and lesbians to marry legally. How long will it be before we have a majority of states recognizing gay marriage?

What is a good arguement against gay marriage? I'm looking for a good arguement against gay marriage because at the moment nothing comes to mind. I've asked this question before and the only thing I got was a few people trying to preach and a couple others that attempted to look at it outside of religion but to no real concrete persuasion. Could somebody please give me something so I can have two sides to look at? I'd like to see an answer in the contexts of how gay marriage would effect people outside of that particular and how it would effect our law system. Please give me concrete reasons and logic. Please don't take this wrong, I'm not against people preaching the words of the Bible I would just prefer a more universal, concrete arguement. Okay, I understand the whole tax loophole dealie.One problem with that bit of logic. A man and a woman could do the same thing just as easily!!! Before answering with some grounds based on the passing on of genes please read lisa C's answer. She's got the right idea.

How would you vote for a ban on gay marriage and why? Here in the Golden State, there is a measure (prop 8) which would allow or ban gay marriage. How would you vote? And for the people who are going to quote the bible, there all all kinds of things that are condemned in the bible but not illegal. What if I want to nail as many supermodels as possible? Should we ban that too? How does this effect you anymore than gay people getting married?

There is a storm coming, Gay Marriage it it going to make me lose my job? I am afraid of Gay Marriage, what will happen to my marriage? The television commercial by the National Organization for Marriage says "There is a storm gathering. The clouds are dark and the winds are strong." Is it going to rain on my marraige? Will I lose my job due to gay marriage? I am frightened for my marriage, what can I do?

Is it possible to be for gay marriage and against the global warming agenda? What about being for Gay marriage and not being for a ban against torturing terrorists to get life saving information. Must one buy all of what is on the menu of the enlightened ones or can you choice just some of the causes and leave the rest. Will you get in trouble if your pro abortion for underage girls without notifying the parents and against affirmative action.

How do you narrow the topic of the legalization of gay marriage dowm? I am writing a research paper on the controversial issue of the legalization of gay marriage. I must narrow this broad topic down. What aspects can I look at? What are topics that are narrower?

Are there any Bible verses that say anything bad about gay marriage? I know there are ones that speak against gay sex, but what about gay marriage? Does it even mention anything about going to a court house and getting a legal marriage license? Also now that California finally banned gay marriage, when will we work on banning divorce?? Divorce damages the sanctity of marriage after all, and the Bible clearly says divorcees are moral sinners. Wait - so you HAVE to have sex if you're married? Otherwise, what happens? Do you go to hell? I went to 8 years of CCD and never heard anything like this!

What the heck is the big deal about gay marriage? Why the heck does anybody care who people that they don't know get married to? What does a gay couple getting married have to do with anyone else? I say to each his own. If a man wants to marry a man, than let him. How does that affect you and me? I don't get it. Why is it anyone else's business? For all the Christians who say no to gay marriage : Why the hell not? So they may go to hell, if you believe that. But you won't. So why do you care? It has nothing to do with you or anyone except the parties involved. BUTT OUT!

Do gay marriage activists support the right of three sisters to get married? Sure, that would also include incest and polygamy, but since it's a form of gay marriage, do they think the only pertinent issue is that people can do whatever they choose?

Do you think Obama well help make gay marriage accepted in more states sometime in his presidency? From a heterosexual Canadian who is appalled that only 3 states have accepted gay marriage. Since we have it all over my country.

How far away is Iowa from legalizing gay marriage? There's a court case going on there that has been in progress for 3 years already and they say it might take another year to get a ruling. That sounds odd: a 4-year-court case? Anyway, do you see gay marriage being realistically legal in Iowa in the next year or two?

People who live in Massachusetts: How has Gay Marriage affected your state? People who disagree with Gay Marriage do so mostly on the basis that it will destroy the "sanctity" of marriage, and society will be hurt tremendously. And I'm not counting religion since it has no place in politics. Now, I have a question to those who live in Massachusetts, how has Gay Marriage affected your state? For good or for bad? I'm using their opinion of what would happen. Personally, I'm on your side, I'm pro-gay marriage. I'm just trying to get the opinions of Mass. residents and using the rights opinions as examples.

Why do questions about abortion and gay marriage get removed? Are people not allowed to have opinions on this? I answered two questions that other people posted, one regarding abortion and the Lacy Peterson law, and one regarding gay marriage. Both questions were removed within a couple of minutes. Are we not allowed to discuss topics other than "how much wood would a woodchuck chuck" on here? Or is opinion really only interesting as long as it doesn't pertain to any serious matters?

Where can I fing information on gay marriage? I am doing a paper for school on gay marriage and I need to include some laws that are being passed. Where can I find information on the current laws that are being passed against gay marriage. I can not use Wikipedia. I will be marked down dramatically on my paper if I do. What are some other sites that have good information on laws that are being passed against gay marriage. And facts of how many states allow gay unions and how many don't. I know that no state in the United states supports gay marriage, but they do have unions.....correct me if I am wrong!

How is Outlawing Gay Marriage not in Violation of The Constitution? It seems that Politicians are using every loophole and desperate attempt to enforce religious doctrine as political doctrine. Isn't all of this in violation of Church and State and Civil Rights? Take a look at these statements about Gay Marriage. Where are the statistics showing that Gay marriage would undermine Western Civilization? How can equality not be impartial? The family represents the foundation of Western Civilization and civil society and John McCain believes the institution of marriage is a union between one man and one woman. It is only this definition that sufficiently recognizes the vital and unique role played by mothers and fathers in the raising of children, and the role of the family in shaping, stabilizing, and strengthening communities and our nation. http://www.johnmccain.com/Informing/Issues/95b18512-d5b6-456e-90a2-12028d71df58.htm Rudy Giuliani believes marriage is between a man and a woman. He does not - and has never - supported gay marriage. But he believes in equal rights under law for all Americans. That's why he supports domestic partnerships that provide stability for committed partners in important legal and personal matters, while preserving the sanctity of marriage between a man and a woman. http://www.joinrudy2008.com/index.php?section=2 It's bigotry and religious dogma disguised as civil rights.

What do people have against gay marriage that it is banned in so many states? America is supposedly a country of freedom, so why are people against gay marriage? I can't find any other reason but religion, so is there another reason? Why are states denying the rights to American citizens? I thought America was a country of freedom?

Will the legal implications overshadow the religious ones when it comes to Gay Marriage? Consider this: In England, marriage was a legal contract before it became a religious one. In ancient Greece, although gay marriage was far from "normal" it did occasionally happen... same thing in Egypt. As far as the LEGAL right to practice religion is concerned - there are Pagans who perform Gay Handfastings, Gay Christian Churches who perform marriages, and Buddhists who will facilitate a gay marriage ritual. Will the anti-gay movement be willing to challenge their "freedom of religion from congressional control" in order to prevent gay marriage?

Why not gay marriage if freedom of religion? Why do people think gay marriage shouldn't be allowed because it's not a marriage God would sanction? If there are sects of Christianity (and there are) who think gay marriage is acceptable in the eyes of God, and we live in a country with freedom of religion, why don't we HAVE to allow gay marriages to respect their religions? Why should a religion that says it's wrong be given more creedence than one that says it's not wrong?

Why are people okay with gay marriage but they oppose polygamy so much? I do not support polygamy and I am not trying to bash gay marriage. But it seems that people are clearly against polygamy while supporting gay marriage. I would like to know why. And please don't say "Its like comparing apples and oranges" because it really isn't. To be clear, I am not talking about the Mormon compounds or anything. Not that many wives. I am talking about if a man has 2 to 3 wives and however many kids, and supports them, why is it that gay marriage is being legalized in places but polygamy isn't?

Why is McCain ignoring that Romney & the Mormon Church is seeking to overturn gay marriage rights? . . . and the initiative on the presidential ballot (Proposition 8), that the Mormons are promoting in their churches, like just last Sunday with their memo from their President Monson? I though non-profit churches were not suppose to have anything to do with politics, and that they are not suppose to send out political memos and political letters to their congregations. Looks like the Mormons are going to try and squash the marriage rights of gay and lesbians in California, and the Republicans are helping them. Interesting stuff.

Gay Marriage Performed in One State and Recognized by Another? Now that California has become the 2nd state in the nation to legalize gay marriage, I had a question concerning it. I remember from a college government class a few years back that said something about if something happens in one state it has to be upheld by another. Is that/was that true of anything or is my memory all funny?

What has been the experience of gay marriage in Massachusetts? Has gay marriage been seen by the citizenry of Massachusetts as good or bad?

Why do people, including some judges, believe voters should decide about gay marriage but not other issues? Voters were not allowed to decide if slavery should remain legal. They were not allowed to decide if women should have the right to vote. They were not allowed to decide if blacks should have the right to vote. If popular opinion was not allowed to discriminate against those groups and to pass unconstitutional laws, they why is it ok for voters to now deny gays the same rights and liberties that others have? If we can vote to ban gay marriage, we should also be able to vote on legalizing slavery, denying women the right to vote, only allowing landowners the right to vote, banning interracial marriage, and a host of other individual rights issues.

How did Gay Marriage get mixed in with the important issues? Sorry, gay people, that the only non-gays who care about this issue are adamantly against gay marriage. While the rest of us just don't want to look like homophobes so we pretend to have an opinion while we really don't care what you do in your spare time, and don't particularly want to know.

When will the United States have nation wide gay marriage? Or is the right going to sucseed in making America the South Africa of this issue?Gay marriage is a civil rights issue,a human rights issue even.

What do you think the decision of the California supreme court on gay marriage will be? Was that phrased kinda weird? Anyway, the supreme court of california heard arguments for and against gay marriage today. What do you truly think the decision will be?

Is California Supreme Court ruling in favor of gay marriage going to hurt the democrats in the Elections? I am not against gay marriage, but I do worry that it may become a key issue in the election, and I think my stance on gay rights is in minority Nationally. Next you have your electoral maps wrong, California is one of the most liberal states.

Will legalizing gay marriage eventually lead to legalized incest? One of the liberals' arguments is that gays didn't choose to be attracted to the same-sex. They were born that way. But incest people also didn't choose to be attracted to a close relative. One of the liberals' arguments is that gay marriage doesn't do harm to other people. It won't harm other people. It won't harm the public. It's their own business. Mind your own business as long as you don't hurt other people. But how about incest? It doesn't do harm to other people. It won't harm other people. It won't harm the public. It's their own business. Mind your own business as long as you don't hurt other people. So do you think that legalizing gay marriage will eventually lead to legalized incest?

Why are Christians not working as hard to ban divorce and re-marriage as they are to ban gay marriage? Christians are so strongly against gay marriage, but are silent on divorce and re-marriage. Christ spoke specifically that re-marriage is adultery (Mathew 5:31) but he says not one word about gays. Shouldn’t the religious conservatives be pushing for a constitutional amendment? You won't find one word in any of the 4 Gospels.

What is your opinion on gay marriage? I believe that it should be legal. The government not allowing people who love each-other get married is ridiculous. Most of the people who don't want it base their opinions on religion. The problem with that is that we have separation of church and state. You have no right to force your opinions or religious views on others with laws outlawing something that is wrong in the bible. That is why it's not illegal in America for someone to eat shellfish, even though in Leviticus it is listed as a sin punishable with hell. I think it is just like racism was back in the 50's. Granted, we still have racism, but I view gay people as the new group of people being persecuted by the bible thumping people who can't think for themselves. What is your opinion? Oh, by the way, the is NO sanctity of marriage. If there was people wouldn't be getting divorces like they were in short supply.

If i have a legal gay marriage in Mass. Do all of my rights still stand if i move to another state? This is sickening that i even have to ask this. Gay marriage should be legal everywhere. can someone please leave me the website where they found this? So if a straight couple got married, and then moved, they would have to get married again to be legally married in the state they moved to? that doesnt make any sense.. i just wish i could find a clear answer to this. "No State shall make or enforce any law which shall abridge the privileges or immunities of citizens of the United States; nor shall any State deprive any person of life, liberty, or property, without due process of law; nor deny to any person within its jurisdiction the equal protection of the laws." some one else on YA .. "For many, such as myself, the issue isn't about marriage, per se. It is about legal entitlement to benefits. For instance, because there is no binding union between homosexuals in the majority of the USA, things like Wills, Power of Attorney, mortgages, etc. can end up in probate or in the hands of the person's family after death, not the person's partner. And that partner has no legal ground to stand on. I personally don't give a wet slap if the church recognizes my nearly 6-year "marriage" to my "husband." I don't even care if the government does, but I do care if the government expects me to continue paying taxes without representing my community. Unfortunately, due to the way our government is set up, it is the people of the US who have determined not to give homosexual partnerships legal status. Our country is about 80% Christian, and most of Christendom condemns homosexuals. From an IRS perspective, as well, the government makes more money off

What approach is Barrack Obama taking against the gay marriage rights? I am asking this only because recently in a few of the American states there was an gay marriage right proposal. If they should or should notmake it legal to have gay marriage. In Connecticut it is now legal to same sex marriage which is to me personally disturbing. To have people marry their opposite sex is where it all begins. People marry other people like they should, its a issue all around the news now, im just suprised some states are for it.

Where can I find information about the debate between whether or not gay marriage is legalized? My teacher is giving us assignments to debate for or against gay marriage today. So I'm not sure what I'll be assigned yet. All I know, is that I need more information on the subject. Any help? Thanks in advance!

How do you feel about gay Marriage? Should gay couples be allowed to adopt, married or not? Why or why not? How do you feel about gay Marriage? Should gay marriage be recognized in the United States? Should gay couples be allowed to adopt, married or not? Why or why not? This is for a school project. I asked these questions separately a month or so ago, but apparently I didn't ask in the manner that my instructor wanted me to, so here it goes again. Thanks.

Why do people have a problem with gay marriage? Can someone explain to me why people are against gay marriage. It's not like people are being forced to married a person of the same sex. I really want to know what people have against it.

How do you feel now that gay marriage is legal in Cali? I'm ecstatic! This is a great step forward in gay rights. And for those of you against gay marriage, I ask why? What's wrong with two people who love each other wanting to be joined in marriage?

Is is possible to oppose gay marriage and NOT be a homophobe? I was just wondering. Since it is possible to be against abortion and still wish to keep it legal (I do), I was wondering if there is a reason why someone would support gays but not gay marriage (corrupting the youth or whatever, who knows?). I support gay marriage, btw.

What is the difference between Civil Unions and Gay Marriage? I ask this because i have noticed that both top democratic presidential candidates support civil unions for same sex couples, but they do not support gay marriage. So, I would like to know the difference. Thanks in advance for your replies!

If the Supreme Court today made a ruling on the constitutionality of gay marriage, what would it be? Would they be for it or against it? Most of the recent (and by recent I mean a decade or two) rulings have been for protecting the rights of gay people. However, Gay marriage is treated like something else in this country. What would the verdict be? Marriage is FEDERAL - considering the existence of the IRS alone proves my point. Massachusetts gay marriage is NOT equal to Massachusetts straight marriage since federal law prohibits recognition.

Is gay marriage really a problem? I'm a homosexual teen. However, I'm open to arguements against gay marriage. If I heard an arguement against gay marriage that makes sense, I'm certainly open to it. However the only arguements I've heard are Biblical which cannot constitutionaly be the reasoning for a law. I've also heard a few unreliable statistics. Does anyone have a reasonable arguement against gay marriage? P.S. If you give one, you may want to check back to this question as I may give counterarguements. Christians as well as other religions feel that they have a right to regulate marriage. And it's true, Christians have a claim to marriage. They DO NOT, however, claim to the idea of a life partnership. Marriage may be between a man and a woman, but a governmentally-recognized life partnership is between anyone. All it is is a different name. Marriage is ONE TYPE of life partnership, not the ONLY TYPE of life partnership. In response to Jooker: While marriage's origin is religious, it is now intertwined with government benefits. A religion doesn't have to recognize the partnership, but the government should. In response to olympik dude: You cannot disallow a law from being passed based on indirect consequences. Although a domino effect could result, that shouldn't result in the nullification of a partnership that should be allowed. We need to cross those bridges when we come to them. Not cut off necessary freedoms to prevent them. In response to Tpride: 1. You don't need to have sex to know what you're attracted too. 2. The basis of our constitution was freedom for all religious practices and that the government would run itself without bias towards any particular religion. It's not constitutional to pass a law based soely on religion. Yes, it is natural for a man to be together with a woman. And yes it is those partnerships that keep the human race thriving. But does that mean we should dissallow heterosexual infertile couples from getting married? To RJ 1. A civil partnership with government benefits is not available. 2. I'M NOT A GAY ACTIVIST. The people that march in the Gay Pride parades are complete idiots. It's counterproductive. Nobody sees that obscene parade and thinks "wow, they deserve to be accepted" In response to Syed H: 1) I completely agree 2) Tolerating and encouragment are not at all the same thing. It's just another poorly thoughtout cliche. 3) That arguement right there was a reasonable arguement. A very good one at that. Gays CAN love a woman for who she is, but love in the same way one loves a friend. Love has nothing to do with being gay or straight, it's about what you're sexually attracted to. You can love anyone, but your not sexually attracted to everyone. BEING GAY IS NOT A CHOICE. I've never heard of any gay who has said they've chosen to be gay. It's an arguement brought up by heterosexuals who don't quite understand. It's not so much the benefits that appeal to gay marriage activists, its the idea that their own government has rejected part of who they are. 4) What about infertile heterosexual couples? Were they "meant" to be infertile? In response to Jack F: Good arguement. But being straight is just as much about sex as being gay is. Being straight is also a sexual preference. So why are heterosexuals the only one's with rights to a partnership. They can be just as loving as a heterosexual couple without kids.

What is the dominant secular view concerning gay marriage? What is the dominant secular view concerning gay marriage?

Do you think gay marriage/civil unions will become legal in the United States and how long before it occurs? Many basic rights taken for granted today were illegal and very unpopular in the not too distant past (interracial marriage, women voting) and were also labeled as blasphemy and against the word of God. Many of us find it hard to believe that the vast majority of people at those times were against these basic rights. Do you think we will view gay marriage/equality in this same light 100 years from now? In response to fr_chuck : The pursuit of happiness IS a constitutional right. Most people would agree that the right to marry the person you love goes hand in hand with the pursuit of happiness. Also, discrimination in job, housing, etc. based on who you love would also be covered in the pursuit of happiness. There is a direct comparison between gay rights, women's suffrage and interracial marriage. In all cases, the church has stated that these were blasphemous in the eyes of God, especially with interracial marriage. There were many biblical passages presented by the church showing interracial marriages to be an abomination (sound familiar yet?). Does your church still feel this way? The church also used the bible to uphold slavery, citing bible passages that proved that the right to own slaves was a divine right. This country was based on religious freedom, however, when your religious beliefs take away someone else rights, they have gone too far.

Help! How do I convince my Conservative-Christian dad that there is nothing wrong with gay marriage? My dad possesses a lot of wisdom. He knows more about religion and homosexuality than I do. He keeps winning the arguments/debates. But his opposition of gay marriage comes from his religious beliefs. Question is, can anyone give me a really good and valid argument that's in support of gay marriage?

How was gay marriage voted out in several US states? I am in the UK and was sorry to see that gay marriage was voted out. How does the system work? Do you have to vote for or against separate items on a ticket or does voting for a candidate ensure you vote for what that person wants. Stay alive and happy lads and lasses Rose P.

Are California divorce attorneys loving life with the whole gay marriage thing? I guess with gay marriage comes gay divorce, right?

What do you think of this solution to the Gay Marriage? We cannot keep denying benefits to people just because of their sexual preferences. It is discrimination. However, I also recognize that to some people, the homosexual lifestyle is very distasteful. Given that people have the freedom of religion, and separation of Church and state, the gov't cannot force churces to accept gays or perform marriages. I would define Unions under law as a joint partnership for members of the gay society, and continue to keep the definition of Marriage between a man and a woman. I would then make sure that gay and lesbian partners of a union are given the same benefits as every heterosexual partner is entitled to. What do you you think of this? That's a good perspective, that yes, have some very good perspectives. I can see how you could say that using a different word might still be discrimination. But at least it's a start and a step forward towards giving Gays and Lesbians some legal benefits. After all, they are people too, they pay taxes, and are a contributing factor to the economy and make-up to the United States. I say we should let the semantics of "Marriage" be sorted out between the Churches and Gays/Lesbian Community. [sorry about the little blurb of nonsense I left up top there under "additional details" .It is leftover from a cut and paste and I didn't notice it. Please disregard. Thanks]

How do Californians feel about legalized gay marriage in California? We, in Manitoba Canada, have had legal gay marriage for a while now and I was just curious about how folks in California are feeling about this change.

Will the gay marriage issue propel a republican into the white house? The gay marriage issue is a very controversial issue. The supreme court of california just legalized through judicial activism. Last time this was an issue, Bush and Kerry were running in 2004 and we know that Bush won. So now that this is again a issue, will this propel McCain info the White House.

Should a believer in Shinto be allowed to have a Gay Marriage? If someone believed in Shinto (it's not a cult, it's the one most common religions in all of Japan. It's older than Christianity.) should they be allowed to have a gay marriage? Their Holy text say nothing about homosexuality being wrong. Would it break the first amendment (freedom of religion) to force our christian beliefs on this hypothetical person? I admit I'm not an expert on Shinto, but say I'm right and it does approve of gay marriage.

When Politicians are asked about Gay Marriage, are any of them providing their honest opinions? It's all political. I think that almost every elected official in Washington, D.C. knows that it's an injustice to deny gay people the same rights as straight people. Currently, America is full of bigots, so if one openly supports gay marriage (which every politican knows is the American thing to do) it hurts them politically. Deep down inside, most politicians are innately aware of the injustice of denying gay people the same rights. Would you guys agree?

How can you vote for Eliot Spitzer if he is for gay marriage? Everybody in New York needs to make this decision this election. If you are for gay marriage, vote for Eliot Spitzer and the other candidates for it. If you are against it, you DAMNED WELL BETTER vote against Spitzer and every other candidate that is for gay marriage. What world are you leaving for your children. I do not want gay marriage, gay civil unions, etc. I do not want my children growing up with such garbage. As such, I am a one issue guy until that issue is off the table once and for all. You should be too.

Would you send your child to a school that treats straight and gay marriage as equal? And if you would, what effects might it have on his/her development? This is relevant because the likely next president of the US, Obama, supports gay marriage - and this new 'value' will obviously have to be taught in schools.

how is it American to use religion to justify a ban on Gay marriage? In a nation that was founded on freedom of religion, how is it American to use religion to justify a ban on Gay marriage?

How exactly does Gay Marriage threaten the sanctity of marriage? I don’t ask this as a question meant to inflame, but rather to get to understand the ideas opposing this. Those who oppose gay marriage say it threatens marriage. Yet, as a married (happily so) heterosexual woman who firmly supports gay marriage, I can’t quite understand HOW exactly that would be true. If you are heterosexual, knowing gay people are getting married isn’t going to stop you from getting married is it? It’s not going to turn you gay. So how exactly does it weaken marriage? What is the actual logical course of this line of thinking? I understand wanting to teach ones own children their own ideas of what is moral and what is not. But by this argument, you teach your children that being Gay is wrong, how does someone else getting married who is gay undo that? Wouldnt your child listen to you, and not some strangers up the street? Please explain. And say the laws were changed so that a civil union garenteed EXACTLY the same rights as marriage. So Gay Couples would be joined in something exactly like marriage, but called something else. Would that solve the problem?