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What's the difference between Love Marriage & Arranged Marriage? What's your opinion? Which one do you prefer? In love marriage, you are married to your own girlfriend... In arranged marriage, you are married to someone's girlfriend... LOL I read it in internet today, thought of sharing it.
Should we not expect marriage if we are in love with someone? One of my colleague is in relationship with a guy. I asked her if she is planning to go for arranged marriage or love marriage? She said she is open for both. She was so cool even if she has to marry other guy. But with me, opposite is the case. I keep worrying about marriage stuff if am in a relationship and don't enjoy the moment. What you guys feel. Should we not expect marriage if we are in love with someone?
Most people who get divorce are married through arranged marriage system or love? I would say love. Because people who go for love marriage have freedom and guts to even start the relationship so at the end they seem to have guts to end the relationship if things are not going well from either side. So, we Indians call this freedom a stupidity. While on the other flimsy side, cowards are forced to stay together due to the fear of society. Of course they will not get divorce. It is not that easy to get out of the house and walk to the lawyers office while parents found THE ONE for you. Is it?
How do you have a love marriage in islam? love marriage in islam is not gunah. meeting up with boy alone is gunah, as it leads to sexual desires. but if you cant meet how do you fall in love? what i dont understand?
What are the advantages/disadvantages of love marriage,arranged marriage, walk or walking marriage? I'm sure that you all know whats the meaning of love marriage, Arranged marriage=you're parents choose a wife/husband for you not by yourself Walk/Walking marriage=you get married but you only meet in the evening and you take care of their relatives What about walk marriage? also cohabitation also cohabitation
How would you compare love and marriage now? from the Elizabethan era? I've got enough facts for the Elizabethan part, but how would you describe love/marriage/divorce now?
Polls and Survey:What do you prefer Love marriage Or Arranged marriage? It is amazing to learn that 3 out of 4 of my uncles had love marriage. And all the 3 uncles children had arranged marriage.Really! So i think nowadays youth prefer to get arranged marriage rather than love marriage.
What is your first preference love marriage or arrange marriage? I would appreciate if you submit explanation with your answer...I would prefer arrange marriage over love marriage
What do you think love marriage ends in happy? Hi dear all, I want to know that love marriage will ends in happy? I am in love for 5 yrs but i have this doubt always. please help
How many of you Think that family matters in love marriage? I love a guy, we both want to marry each other but I m little bit confuse about his family’s atmosphere & beliefs. I belong to a moderate family but his family is narrow minded village based. I am thinking, Is I am able to coordinate with his family becoz I have to spend whole life with them.
Will i have a love marriage or arranged marriage? I have seriously been to many astrologers and they all keep telling me different things. So could vedic astrology experts tell me by looking at my chart if i will have love or arranged marriage? my dob is - female born on 23/08/89 born at 8am In New Delhi, India. Thank you in advance!
Do you think childhood storybooks give a wrong impression on how love/marriage is suppose to be? I ask because it seems like a lot of people believe marriage is something that doesn't need work to succeed. It seems that a lot of people are quick to get a divorce on the first signs of trouble. How do you feel about it?
Would you want to follow your parents about love marriage or arrange marriage? Do you think that people should follow their parents and get arranged marriage to their cousins or they should be allowed to choose and get married to someone that would fit fine with their family as a love marriage? PLEASE TELL ME!
I it reasonable to disregard marriage b/c you think 'love' is nonsense? I think love/marriage R overrated? I mean, from my experienceand that of others, I've felt that romantic relationships are NOT for me. I do NOT feel happy with the idea of marriage. I think marriage would get in the way of my life like my career, money, pets, etc. I find it and love to be boring. Is this okay?
How i can registered my Love marriage in the high court? Hi There,I want to get married with my Girlfriend & My Family is not going to support me because she is from a Hindu background & I'm from a Jatt Sikh Family.Can You Please Tell Me How to file for our court marriage & How long it will take?What is the requirements for the court marriage?Thanks In Advance......
DO you Think ARRANGED MARRIAGE IS BETTER THAN LOVE MARRIAGES? i used to think that arranged marriages is at best a forced wedding.But i found that people eloping in arranged marriages have the lowest divorce rates,both in west and east. In arranged marriages what they do is that they measure the quality and traits of the boy and the girl.If most traits match, they marry. Initially there is no love between the couple but love happens slowly in a later stage.
Am i gonna have love marriage or arrange marriage? I am in love with sweet heart I am so confused whether I should be in love or not. I need astrology help here please its 23-07-1990 4:30am udupi india I was born can you find out?
How can you tell by looking at a birth chart will the person have arranged marriage or love marriage? I mean do you look at certain planets or count the number of degrees, etc. Is there a calculation to figure this out?
Should I have a Love Marriage or Arranged marriage? I need to know what you think. My parents are hooking me up with this chick but I don't like her. I'm in love with Knight Rose instead. Should I tell my parents? They are so happy and I don't want to break their hearts either. Comments.
I just loved a thing in a gift shop today - do you like this saying about love and marriage? It had....... LOVE I love marriage To want to be with someone you want to annoy for the rest of your life ............................................................. I just had a giggle- (i've been married for a long time) Did you like it?
How can I do Legal inter-cast love marriage with my Love in one day process at Jalgaon or near to Jalgaon (MS)? I request to you please provide me proper information How can I do Legal inter-cast love marriage with my Love in one day process at Jalgaon or near to Jalgaon and after marriage I can got a legal valid marriage certificate immediately. Please give me details . . . Please !
What cool things can you share about the number six in relation to love, marriage, luck and myth? I heard that the number six is associated with love and marriage (I guess when talking about numerology). What have you heard about the number six? Do you know any more cool facts about the number six concerning love, marriage, myth, etc? If so, can you please share them with me... thanks... Best Wishes... T.
Will I have love marriage or arranged?When and How is my married life ? i wanna know " when wil my marriage happen ? whether marriage wil be love or arranged~? he will be educated or not? how wil be married lyf? Date of Birth:28-11-1985 Time:-11-28AM ( day tym) Place -Saudi Arabia Riyadh Thanking you in anticipation~~~~~~~...
Permissibility Of Love Marriage in Islam? Note that when I say "love", I'm not taking about anything considered sinful such as premarital sex. Before I ask a women's hand in marriage, I would like to ensure that I am in love with her, in the sense that I want to ensure that I share a "deep connection" with her. Would this be considered forbidden in Islam? Why marry someone whom you are not in love with?
When will I get married, and will I have a successful married life and is love marriage indicated? My date of birth is Jan. 27, 1988 at 8:39AM in New Delhi. Please and thank you. I am a male. Thank you.
Where in the bible, does it mention/refer to love, relationships & marriage with such words as endurance ? Like things you go through, experience, endure during love, relationships, marriage. Like you shall (this and that) endure (or) endurance My Nan has shown and told me it a couple of times, but I don't know where precisely in the bible it is. There is all these words such as and including endure or endurance that goes on for several or so sentences and paragraphs. It's in regard to relationships, if not love, marriage as well
Hi friends can you suggest me arrange marriage or love marriage which one is fruitfull? my bro wanted to do love marriage but parents are interested in having arrange marriage bcoz they are Orthodox suggest me how to explain parents or bro for this situation .
Would you call this love or arrange marriage? we met on a marriage matermony website, talked for 2 weeks, he came to meet me (drove 10 hours), my parents didn't knew im meeting him. we met in a mall and liked each other a lot, we kept on talking after that without telling anyone. now it has been two months and he is already wanting me to meet his parents and want to get married in about 5 months. so is this an arriage marrage or love marriage. im asking this because he told me that he doesn't want an arrange marriage and want love marriage.
I need a hook sentence for an essay on why love marriage is better than arranged.? We have to write an essay on what we think is better, love marriage or arranged. I need a hook sentence (the first sentence in the essay). It can be: -> A Question -> A Quote -> A Poem -> A Song -> A Interjection -> A Startling Statistic can you guys please help me?!
How many of you support Love marriage ? How many of you interest in doing love marriage? a. I am very much interest in love marriage. b. No- I want same old story arrange marriage. c. I am ready to do love marriage within two months of time.
How are you suppose to have a Love Marriage when you can't Date? I don't get it. If you want a love marriage then you have to go out mingle and date. You can just be like: "Hey, wassup? U wanna get married?" the girl will be like wtf?! In order to get married you need to date then it will go against Islam So how does this work out exactly? Btw I'm a Muslim. xx
Hi I am looking for a love marriage? Friends I am sathish 23, vellore, tamilnadu. I am looking for my dream girl. I am open and if you are interested please let me know. We can surely join hands in life when we both are interested with each other.
Got a cute love/marriage story (easy points)? How did you meet your spouse? Was it love at first sight? How long have you been together? I love real love stories, and would really like to read some if you don't mind sharing!
arrange marriage or love marriage in my fate? Respected all, Iam female & here giving detail of my horoscope please let me know about my marriage that it will be arrange or love marriage presently iam in love with some one so please advice me, we will be marry or not. Date of birth 7th april 1988, time 4.00 am, place haridwar , india I will be thankful to all of you for your kind assistance and worthful help Warm regards
Would you please tell me some positive points on the topic of Love Marriage.? There is a discussion in my center over whether love marriages are better or arranged. We are in favor of love marriages and want some positive points regarding to this. I will be extremely thankful to you for being a helpful guide
How is my future?when i will be married?whether it will be a love marriage or arranged marriage? My name is hardik. My date of birth is 22nd august 1987. Place of birth is nadiad,gujarat,India.,Time of birth is 3:30 pm. Send my answer to my id hy_hardik@yahoo.com..... Thank you
Is Love marriage a luxury, or an entitlement? Is it okay for everybody to expect that they will one day meet the love of their lives, marry and live happily ever after (with a few bumps here and there...that's natural)? Or is it an utter luxury? I don't care what country or culture you're from... Even in case of arranged marriages, is it possible to be as satisfied and happy? I don't see why though...
Will i ever get my true love/marriage?my DOB is 30.01.1980. 6.51am.female.TVM, Kerala. ? I recently had a severe heartbreak, a love failure which was completely not by my fault..I strongly believe in GOD..i fear this is because of my samaya dosha? what remedies i have to perform to overcome this situation and find my true love..pls any one tell me.thank you.
When i will get married?whether it will be a love marriage or arranged? My name is hardik. My date of birth is 22nd august 1987. Place of birth is nadiad,gujarat,India.,Time of birth is 3:30 pm. thank you
Ali, could you plz show me some more good reasons to support love marriage? I need to do an assignment which talk about love and arrange marriage. Which one is better? My side is to support love marriage. Hopefully you can help. Thank you b4 hand.
I would like to know when will I get married? Will it be an arranged or a love marriage? ? My d.o.b is 22-09-1984. Time is 13:25 PM IST Place : Mumbai I was told by someone that I am having saade sati currently till 09-09-2009. Can I get more details about my horoscope? Thank You.
Does he want arrange marriage or love marriage? This is what he said it to me. Can you please tell me what hes talking about marriage? is he doing an arrange marriage? "i m not praising my self...but you will not find love any where else...than i can offer 12:29 AM this is why i m still single cuz i never wanted to do arrange marriage n i want to make sure that the person i m with has same feelings 12:30 AM or there is clear road to get those feelings in future"
Is our love/marriage centered on sex? I have been married to my wife for 6 years and our sex life is just out of this world. I have realised one surprising thing so far: The only time my wife says the words "I love you" to me is just soon after sex. Does it mean that she can only appreciate my worth to her after sex? What does this mean?
I will have Arrange Marriage or Love Marriage, I am very romantic.My Birth date is-12-aug-1990...? I want a Love marriage.But one astrologer said that you will have arrange marriage.........I am really very upset..Plzz tell me na
Symbols for love, marriage? I want to get a tattoo that symbolizes love and/or marriage. I am looking for something original, not hearts, you know? I have been married for two years, and I want it to represent my husband and my relationship. Thanks!
Muslims: what do think of love marriage? Muslims: what do think of love marriage? and lovers. When I say "lovers" i mean two muslim couples who love each other, go on a date but don't kiss or have sex, the worst thing they do is holding hands and in the end they get married. What do you guys think of these people. And the man is a really romantic guy.
how to get love marriage of non cast? i am christian he his muslim we want to get marriage but my family do not support me i even don't talk with my family member how to say about this but we want marry how to convenes my parents i live with my aunty and my mom aboard please give some idea thank you friends for your help................................
Indian love marriage couples...Are you happy with the outcome of your marriage? You have sacrificed the trust and faith that your parents had on you , do you really think you did the right thing. will you allow your sisters or daughter to follow your foot prints..Thanks for giving me sincere reply.Your advise is worth for young girls
Can u Plz tell me Timing of my marriage??? Is it love marriage or not? Hello sir /mam I m Yatish ,can u plz tell me Timing of my marriage??? Is it love marriage or not??? my birth details are as follows, Name : Yatish DOB: 22/08/1988 sex : male Time: 7:14 PM Place: Nasik (Maharashtra) Country: India ………plz tell me i m in love……..plz Thank you
Which one is worse: arranged marriage or love marriage? I'm thinking it has to be arranged marriage....thats like having a deathclock...tick, tick, ticking away until you have to be "locked down". How fun is that?
I need a womans view on love,marriage and being faithful.? ladies pleasssse tell me why a woman would have an affair on her husband after 14 yrs of marriage.she is a person that suffers from depression ,she has turned her attention toa younger man 25 yrs old who lives with his mom.he already had a failed marriage after only 2 months .from what my wife tells me .and he understands her so she says.excuse me but I was 25 at one time and hung around with guys my age.these guys werent into seriouse relationships ,they knew how to sweeten a girl up so they would give up the candy,if you know what I mean.I have explained this to my wife and shes on cloud nine over this guy and thinks he only thinks about her.but she met him on the internet.I'm not perfect but I know in my heart that I am in love with my wife.I dont think the grass is greener on the other side do you?
What do you hoenstly think about love, marriage, kids, and..? The perfect little family. I think it's all overrated. But then again i'm 17 :D
Arrange marriage or love marriage in my fate? Respected all, Iam male & here giving detail of my horoscope please let me know about my marriage that it will be arrange or love marriage . Date of birth 23rd April 1979, time 5.45 PM, place Mandya, india I will be thankful to all of you for your kind assistance and worthful help Warm regards
lust love marriage xxx funny or true xxx have i posted this before xxx? LOVE - When your eyes meet across a crowded room. LUST - When your tongues meet across a crowded room. MARRIAGE - When you try to lose your spouse in a crowded room. LOVE - When you argue over how many children to have. LUST - When you argue over who gets the wet spot. MARRIAGE - When you argue over whose idea it was to have kids. LOVE - When you share everything you own. LUST - When you steal everything they own. MARRIAGE - When the bank owns everything. LOVE - When you phone each other just to say, "Hi." LUST - When you phone each other to pick a hotel room. MARRIAGE - When you phone each other to b*tch about work. LOVE - When you write poems about your partner. LUST - When all you write is your phone number. MARRIAGE - When all you write is checks. LOVE - When your only concern is for your partner's feelings. LUST - When your only concern is to find a room with mirrors all around MARRIAGE - When you're only concern as to what's on TV. LOVE - When you are proud to be seen in public with your partner. LUST - When you only see each other naked. MARRIAGE - When you never see each other awake.
18, virgin,finishing up my last year high school.should i have sex with just any one or some1 i love, marriage I am 18 a Male, and a virgin,I am finishing up my last year high school. Should i have sex with just any one, someone I love (like a girlfriend) or marriage. I do know i have to worry about STD's, and getting one would be very bad. I know this is my desision but I would like to get some advice from you guys.
What is a love marriage in india? im doing my homework and im not smart. on the internet i uses words as what i call 'big' words, haha lol, aka words that i don't understand and words ive never heard before. Can you help please??
Love Marriage Problem? Hi Friends I am in love with a girl and she too loves me. We both are from different caste. My family has no problem with this as they like the girl. The problem is with her parents. They are not agreeing to our marriage. We have tried for a year now but no use. We dont want to elope as it would bring bad name to her parents. We are planning to say that we are already married but will not start staying together till parents get us married. I need all the help and advice. Thank you all.
Question for love - marriage couples? I went through numerous articles on love marriage and arranged marriage , and most of the writers claim that the biggest problem with love marriage is you have lots of expectations from your partner and when those expectations are not fulfilled it leads to fights and eventually the marriage breaks up. For a girl like me who has been in a relationship for almost 5 years, and is getting ready to marry in a year or so this is something hard to imagine. Need your views. What are those "expectations" Have you guys faced the same ? If so, how do you combat those situations ?
Would a marriage be considered "arranged" even if the groom or bride does the choosing? I thought it was, because a "love marriage" is when two people fall in love and traditionally date. People say arranged marriages are arranged by the parents, but there are a lot of people today that choose their bride/groom WITHOUT formally dating them. Isn't it still arranging to marry someone without falling in love first or dating them for a few years? What do you think? Kessie-Even when parents arrange the partners for their kids, they still ask their kids if they like the person. If the kid doesn't like the person the mom or dad chooses, the parent goes on to the next person.
How to convince the parents for a love marriage when you love the guy so dearly that you can't let him go? How to overcome caste problem and how to convince parents to accept the person? For example he's a Tamil and i am a Malayalee. How to handle this situation? I am the only daughter for my parents while he's a the eldest among his 2 sisters.His family members knew about our realtionship but my parents don't. But i will let them know when i have completed my studies. He even convinced me that he will take care of my parents as his own when we get married in the future.He's such a nice guy and very loving and we are in the relationship for over 4 years. We are a very compatible couples and share a mutual understanding between us. He's currently doing his engineering in electronics while i am doing my biomedical science.Is it possible for my parents to accept him when he become someone successful in the future? My parents are looking for a guy who possess good characters so that i can live happily with him. But how to avoid this caste problem and i don't want it to arise in the future.
Will I have a love marriage? ( Please don't answer unless you have a sensible ans)? D.OB: 1ST December 1986 Time: 07:55 Place: Preston,England I am already in a relationship, and want to know if marriage is there between us. Thanks PS: Please let people believe what they want, Therefore no negative answers please. Just don't answer my question if you don't agree with it! Thanks!
Plz tell me Timing of my marriage??? Is it love marriage or not? Hello sir /mam I m Yatish ,can u plz tell me Timing of my marriage??? Is it love marriage or not??? my birth details are as follows, Name : Yatish DOB: 22/08/1988 sex : male Time: 7:14 PM Place: Nasik (Maharashtra) Country: India ………plz tell me i m in love……..plz Thank you
Ramadan: Do you believe in love BEFORE marriage? Yes? No? Why? I don't believe in love before marriage. I think true love comes AFTER marriage.
Arranged marriage vs Love marriage? Ok so I need some points to compare and contrast arranged marriage with love marriage. What would make some really good points...SO please can you help me ...thank you so much
what if i dont feel this love after 3 yrs of arranged marriage? I agree with you all..love at first sight is mainly lsut..onyl after you get to know a person you really fall in love with them. I have been in arrangd marriage for 3 yrs and half noww, and i met my wife once for1 15 min then 3 days later said eys to marry her. Today i am not sure if i love her, the lvoe you see in everyday couple who went to love marriage...there are no sparsk...i dunno why i cant feel that love that she feel for me and i dont know what to do..if it is lost case and if we should divorce becuz of incompatibilities or no love? i was told falling in love will happen eventually after marriage...but it didnt happen...on my side..and on top i was told i have sexual behavior (obsessive compulsive disorder), but even without this i do feel this absence of feelings....someone can tell me something? hi, i looked for a romantic, love at first sight for few years in my young age (18-24 yrs old) and many times i foudn girls i liked instantly, attracted to but it didnt go further at all, they either rejected me or it wasnt really marriage material girl. At the end i desperately gave up and decided parents to look for me. I needed someone to give me companionship, love, sex and everythig needed from a partner. They didnt help me much findning me 2 girls to meet for 15-30 mins, then decide later on to marry or not. The first one i met instantly i liked her, enjoyed the talk and was willing to say yes. She said no. the seocnd was my wife, met her, talked to her 15 min, didnt like her instantly, nor the talk was enjoyable (she was down cuz of mother's cancer) and 3 days later i had to give a answer. I was confused said yes thinking i wont find another girl after this that i will like. I need a rational advice considering everything else around. I was told love grows after marriage. hi, thanks so far for teh answers. Few basic questions and thoughts: 1. should is top topic this and continue with a cousnellor i m going to see tommorow? 2. what if i am not missing any love feeling, maybe i love ehr but i am mainly only missing the romantic love, the attractive lust that you have when you fall in love? maybe i am jsut a little harder in my heart? 3. if you say yes or no about love happening from your experience, can you please tell me why yu think ti didnt happen to you, or did happen to you and why do you think it is not happening to me? 4. is it possible that i am only gonna fall in love if i find a women enough beautiful to sweep me off, and i dont even need to know her before? 5. most fo you guys are telling me love is not possible after arranged marriage....so it is true..? I am scrrewed and wasted my time with her thanks
Should I go for love or arranged marriage? Hi i am 24 and still havent met the special person with whom I would like to spend my whole life... All my friends have got their bfs... I am beautiful, intelligent and attractive... And many guys propose me but they are not really my type... I am feeling very sad... Do u think that I should go for arranged marriage? I really wanted love marriage but I dont find the type of person I really want... I am feeling depressed as it's boring not to have a bf at age of 24... Please advise... Thank you
2. Whats the point to love? Why is it important to be in a single and manogamous relationship? Whats the point to love? Why is it important to be in a single and manogamous relationship? What is the difference between love, marriage and sex with beautiful people? What are challenges and solutions to marriage? Why does God as for only one? What, in your opinion is the keys to a sucessful partnership? How do you not get tired of the partner? Are there any scienctific benefits of marriage? I may not be who i want yet but through trials like my parents not having the ideal relationship i've grown and gotten the results I wanted and a certain level of feeling independant? Why is it important to be married? And what does it do to the enrichment of your live vs. sex with plenty of beautiful women which may or may not be a personal goal? Christians, please try to be intelligent with your answers, guilt is not a teaching method. Thank you!
survey: love marriage or arranged marriage? which one would you choose, unless ofcourse you are already married. As a matter of fact I would choose in between, if that is allowed but if not then love-marriage but no s-- b4 wedding lol
love marriage vs. arranged? wondering which one lasts longer....i mean like back home in my country everyone gets arranged for their marriage and the divorce rates there are really compare to other modern countries. Is it becuz women don;t speak up...or are arranged marriages just better. If you fall in love with someone can't you fall in love with someone else to....i'm keeping it short but...with arranged u get to the know the person and all so its longer lasting is what i here....which one is better? *are really low
can i get love marriage or arrenge? i love some one. but my father not ready to accept him,can you tell me your suggestion
I am 29 have got married & my husbands age is 24.Its a love marriage..till my honeymoon all was good..but....? I am 29 have got married & my husbands age is 24.Its a love marriage..till my honeymoon all was good..but immediately after then my motherinlaws showed her true colors...Whatever I wear she wants the same Earlier I adjusted but now it is irritating & my husbands behaviour is totally changed..He supports my inlaws when she is totally wrong & my husband has stopped beliving that his mother basically is making my image down in front of everyone..Whenever we visit my inlaws they want that my husband should leave me at my parents place & should be with her only..In between he has started beating me too...Every time he wants to buy all for his mother & says she is more important to me than you & keeps on giving her money from his salary..& still my motherinlaw is looking for a match for my husband..Nobody in the family talks to her much..& whosoever tries to make my husband understand that now you are married you should take care of your wife my husband stops visting those..I cannot talk this to my parents...Pls help what to do..My husband was not like this but soon after marriage he has changed drastically..I have tried but now feel broken.....
Do you believe the charming single men over 25 yrs old looking 4 real love & marriage exist anymore? Just wondering? I have a feeling that not only in big cities but also in elsewhere these kind of men become extinct. :)) LOL. I'd like to hear what your opinion is.
Is love before marriage better? What is more stable in Islam, a love marriage or an arranged marriage? The issue of this marriage depends on the ruling on what came before it. If the love between the two parties did not transgress the limits set by Allaah or make them commit sin, then there is the hope that the marriage which results from this love will be more stable, because it came about as the result of the fact that each of them wanted to marry the other. If a man feels some attraction towards a woman whom it is permissible for him to marry her, and vice versa, there is no answer to the problem except marriage. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “We do not think that there is anything better for those who love one another than marriage.” (Narrated by Ibn Maajah, 1847; classed as saheeh by al-Busayri and by Shaykh al-Albaani in al-Silsilah al-Saheehah, 624) But if that marriage comes about as a result of an illicit love relationship, such as when they meet and are alone together and kiss one another, and other haraam actions, then it will never be stable, because they committed actions that go against sharee’ah and because they have built their lives on things that will have the effect of reducing blessings and support from Allaah, for sin is a major factor in reducing blessings, even though some people think, because of the Shaytaan’s whispers, that falling in love and doing haraam deeds makes marriage stronger. Moreover, these illicit relationships that take place before marriage will be a cause to make each party doubtful about the other. The husband will think that his wife may possibly have a similar relationship with someone else, and even if he thinks it unlikely, he will still be troubled by the fact that his wife did do something wrong with him. And the same thoughts may occur to the wife too, and she will think that her husband could possibly have an affair with another woman, and even if she thinks it unlikely, she will still be troubled by the fact that her husband did something wrong with her. So each partner will live in a state of doubt and suspicion, which will ruin their relationship sooner or later. The husband may condemn his wife for having agreed to have a relationship with him before marriage, which will be upsetting for her, and this will cause their relationship to deteriorate. Hence we think that if a marriage is based upon an illicit premarital relationship, it will most likely be unstable and will not be successful. With regard to arranged marriages where the family chooses the partner, they are not all good and not all bad. If the family makes a good choice and the woman is religious and beautiful, and the husband likes her and wants to marry her, then there is the hope that their marriage will be stable and successful. Hence the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) urged the one who wants to get married to look at the woman. It was narrated from al-Mugheerah ibn Shu’bah that he proposed marriage to a woman, and the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said, “Go and look at her, because that is more likely to create love between you.” (Narrated by al-Tirmidhi, 1087; classed as hasan by al-Nasaa’i, 3235) But if the family make a bad choice, or they make a good choice but the husband does not agree with it, then this marriage is most likely doomed to failure and instability, because the marriage that is based on lack of interest usually is not stable. And Allaah knows best. Islam Q&A I DONT THINK ANYONE IS READING THE FATWA!! I DONT THINK ANYONE IS READING THE FATWA!! @ happy go lucky rita: Alhamdu lillah, I am a married woman , not a teenage girl. ANd i NEVER dated my husband before marriage. u say that the prophet met women!! ALLAHU AKBAR!! The Prophet lowered his gaze while talking to women, he maintained a distance. how can u use his example to justify taking bfs/gfs!! ISLAM SAYS WE SHD NOT HAVE BF OR GFS. AND IF U FOLLOW THE SHARIAH, YOU WONT BE DISAPPOINTED. maybe u had some bad experiences, but pls dont generalise.
Does age count in relationships, specially in love & marriage relations? If the woman is older than the man how much does it effect the relation, & is there any chance for this relation to succeed? & what may the community offere toward this kind of relations?. If you agree or disagree i appreciate to hear ur reasons! Thank you Thanx for whom answered so far ... I ment the difference not more than 10 years as for 30 year old man & 37 year old women ......
POEM ON LOVE/MARRIAGE??? PLEASE HELP ME! THANK YOU IN ADVANCE!!!!? I have to write a poem on love or marriage in the form of Shakespearean Sonnet (abab cdcd efef gg) and i don't know what to write. Poetry is already one of the things i am horrible at, i can come up with anything and having to have to write it in such form that i don't understand makes it more difficult... Please help me i am struggling here i would really appreciate your help, thank you thank you in advance.
hmmm...bible, love, marriage, sex? ok..so ive been thinking. In the time the bible was written marriage was very different. Basically you could get married at any age, like 13. So if you were in love then that is when youd get married. Nowadays, say your 16 & in love n wanna get married u cant w/out parental permission & therefore its considered a sin to have sex. But its still the same love between the olden days couple that did get married & the nowadays couple that cant. So why is it worse? why doest there have to be that legal ceremony to make it officially not a sin? cant you just make a comittment between you & your sig. other with god? I think its wierd that it has to be recognized by the gov. to be official...dont u think it should be most importantly between the couple & god? Like is a legal marriage & a non-legal committment that different when it comes to religion? n is it better for a couple who isnt in love but married legally to have sex or a couple who isnt but verrrry comitted & in love? opinions plz. to rude person: well ok...it shows how mature you are that you cant discuss something without being rude. its called emphasis and colloquial speech...."verrrry" its just how i would have said it if this was in person. anywhoo...i do agree that ppl did had more responsibilty and knew more about life at a younger age back then. but im just saying that in my experience I happen to have a best friend that is verrrry....yes verrrrry in love with her boyfriend, both very mature in many ways including their relationship with god and are waiting till marriage which they would surely do today if they legally could. so what is the diff between them making a committment with god and them making one with the gov? marriage is sacred therefore it should matter more with god. psh....and if u need a paper & ceremony 2 make it "REAL" then...oy. i hope ur stranded on an island with the person you want to marry and all u have is god as ur witness, no paper, no preacher, nothing. well see how u think then oh and ppl im not 16! im older. that was an example. so dont talk to me like im a little kid.
Love marriage vs Arranged Marriage or semi arranged marriage? I'm 23 and my mum is pestering me well was, to find someone or she'll find someone for me. i honestly dont know what i want in a marriage but i do wanna fall in love some day with a nice sweet guy.. the thing is with marriage in my culture is that both love and arrange doesnt really go well and end up spiliting up and causes a lot of problems between families, either way. Can someone tell me from love marriage and arrange marriage of how you and your spouse are, together, are you happy? great as a team? loyal? supportive? jus tell me anything--yes im too young, get over it! I just need a guidance thats all and yes im british muslim bengali and yes i am a person who is living life to the modern approach
What is love in marriage? ? I was having a conversation with a friend about arranged marriages. This friend thinks that dating is sleazy, because the people they've spoken to only seem to be in it for a bit of fun, rather than looking for long-term commitment. It got me thinking what the benefits of falling in love and finding your life-partner that way are. If all you need is mutual respect, similar goals and a determination to make the marriage work, then why do so many marriages fail? If the feeling of "being in love" fades (in love marriages), and the love grows (in an arranged marriage) - do they both end up in the same place? And is there any difference in the sort of love (quality/quantity maybe)? Does being in love with someone mean that the marriage is any more or less likely to succeed?
Marriage : Arranged or Love? See my friends, our generation says love marriage is best, but think, how many of us can see the same face life long ?? lemme come to the point, you all know about love, love making and breakup, will these things not hurt a girl or a boy?? there must be friends between us having divorced parents, they must be loving each other some times before ? I'm not or 'll be ne'er against love marriage but love making before marriage really destroys the psycology of many of us, and you must have heard about many suicide cases, So you complete this I'm leaving this question half hazard, and yes gimme your answers and comments regarding this, AND THINK HARD BEFORE YOU TYPE ANYTHING
love marriage for 2 yrs not now v r no more together my parent say go to him or get maried to some one else? It was a love marriage but we are not together for the past 4 mnths he told every pne that i am having a affair with my boss . My parent say either you have to go back to him or get a divorce and get married to some one else i don know what to do? i dont have a affair with my boss is 35 and i am 21 he just said it becoz i told him that i wont allow his mother in my house as she is very rude and he wanted to leave his job also . i told him if he keep up his job i allow his mom to come and stay with us that when he started say this shit I am still working with my boss and stay at my parent place. My mom thinks that i am a burdemn on them
Is love marriage better than arrange marriage? Do arranged marriages work ? arranged marriage is one in which you marry someone because you think their background and family and personality is really suitable for you and that you have a great chance of loving that person and staying with that person for ever. You need to have sufficient religious and cultural image about the sanity of a marriage and the social support to make it work. you don't spend a lot of time' dating, typically less than a year, sometimes a couple of months, you are typically introduced by parents. most often the person you marry is significantly better than one you could meet otherwise, i.e, through normal course of life, but you have either social or cultural or parental pressure to marry or move on to another girl, so you get married. Can two nice people who have the right approach to resolving differences be in love for a lifetime just because they are both have the right background, is it any different if you marry someone by trying it out first . I am indian and my parents are forcing me for arrange marriage.I am 22 years old and don't want to go for arrange marriage.i also don't want to break my parents heart too suggestion i am single
Can someone grow to love an arranged marriage partner? If I were to go to another country and successfully arrange myself a marriage to the daughter of a Slavic family, do you think she would ever truly love me in her heart or feel a connection with me. I'd treat her nice, I'd let her avoid the hardships of employment by being the financial provider, and I'm make every night filled with romance. I'd show her that I care about her and want to give her a good life. I have my personal and spiritual reasons why I want to arrange myself a marriage instead of dating. One of my reasons is because I want a future wife to only think of me when we kiss and make love (The way it was when traditional royalty got married) and so we can have an intimate bond with one another. Statistics show that about 100,000 slavic women (ages 16-30) are sold as sex slaves and many go into it unwillingly because they want to escape poverty or other conditions. So, if I were to arrange myself a marriage to a Slavic woman, I know I'd be doing charity by saving her life and finding myself someone to love.(I'm a Christian, just in case you're wondering) And before you criticize my motives, here are some things to consider. "50% of all marriages in the America end in divorce." "Arranged marriages are often said to be more stable than love marriages. " "10/12/2008--- As of today, nearly 70% of Ukrainians live behind the poverty line..... According to Nina Karpachova, namely 70% of the Ukrainian population live at not more than $3 per day, by criteria of the World Bank......" "This month [March 12, 2007] Russia's orthodox church warned that the gulf between the rich and poor was growing wider, with some 20% of Russians below the poverty line. There is still no real middle-class and there is a significant gap between urban and rural life, the church said, warning: "Russia possesses between 30% and 40% of the earth's resources. Revenues from exports of natural resources built the stabilisation fund. But only a very small part of society is getting richer. It is doing so at a pace that amazes even some of the richest people in the world. On the other hand, the majority of the population lives in destitution." “Sex before marriage ruins marriage. If you marry someone who has had multiple partners, there will always be an underlying comparison to their past experience making marriage insecure." I want to have someone special in my life. That is why I desire to arrange myself a marriage.
can someone from Love marriage vs Arranged Marriage or semi arranged marriage tell me something please? I'm 23 and my mum is pestering me well was, to find someone or she'll find someone for me. i honestly dont know what i want in a marriage but i do wanna fall in love some day with a nice sweet guy.. the thing is with marriage in my culture is that both love and arrange doesnt really go well and end up spiliting up and causes a lot of problems between families, either way. Can someone tell me from love marriage and arrange marriage of how you and your spouse are, together, are you happy? great as a team? loyal? supportive? jus tell me anything--yes im too young, get over it! I just need a guidance thats all and yes im british muslim bengali and yes i am a person who is living life to the modern approach Er. If I would get this b____d as my husband think again cos I won't.
Besides for love/marriage...? Besides for love/marriage have you converted to another religion? I don't mean from one sect to another but rather Christian to Judaism, Islam, Hindu, Pagan/Wicca, or some other religious doctrine. If so what was/were your reason to convert? I am also not looking for those that became Atheists/Agnostics or vice versa.
I need to get a genuine marriage. How long does it take to fall in love with each other and get married? My buddies are saying that I need to get married ASAP while in the military so I can get all the advantages. I don't want a contract marriage but a genuine one. I don't want to abuse the military system. How long will it take to seduce a girl, make her fall in love with me and want to marry me? I fall in love at first sight so the marriage will be based on mutual love as long as she is willing.
What is the difference between a love marriage and an arranged marriage? What is the difference between a love marriage and an arranged marriage?
what is the difference between Arranged marriage and love marriage ? why Arranged marriage last longer than love marriage ?Divorce rate is increasing everywhere . what is the main reason ?
What are the advantages of love marriage? what are the advantage behined to go for love marriage .beside that arrange marriage don't have?
How arrange an arranged love marriage? There is this girl who is very compatible with me. Thing is her parents are looking out for a guy for her, and my parents are looking out for a girl for me. Her parents dont like the idea of love marriages. So could anyone please give me some ideas as to have an arranged marriage so neither of our parents know that we are already in love. P.S. Please dont tell me to admit the facts to our parents and stuff. That is the last resort i will be trying out anyway.
What did couples did to create love in arranged marriage.? and what did people in love marriage did to retain their love. Please write you experience. What do men / women do to make them happy.
How to convince my parents for a love marriage? i'm in love with this guy and we have been going out for the past 5 years and would like to get married. but the problem is my parents are not willing to marry us as i'm a hindu and he is a christian. p.s. i'm an indian. PLEASE SUGGEST ANY TIPS AND IDEAS TO CONVINCE MY PARENTS FOR THIS MARRIAGE. SERIOUS ANSWERS PLEASE!
What are the problems commonly occuring in love marriage? in india,lot of love marriages ends in a divorce,what are the real problems thats happening.lets assume the affair was deep and really understanding before marriage,whats going wrong after it.i really appreciate ones with personal experience. thank u
How To Improve Love Marriage Relationship? How To Improve Love Marriage Relationship? As we all knew that there is always the problems in case of Love marriage it may be from either side of the parent. So to improve the Love marriage relationship, one must understand each other family.When the family members relation gets smooth automatically both the husband and wife will also live happily in the family with their parent, which is the positive sign for better life...Marriage - Improve
Is love the only ingredient that keeps a marriage together? Do you believe love is all it takes to stay married and make it work? Does marriage need more than love? If so, what more does a marriage need than love? If not, then is the only basis of marriage love?
When there is no love marriage, even then the couple love each other? In india there are a few love marriages, but the others who could not arrange love marriages could also establish love for the other partners. They had been living happy life.
i am johanna jessica,born on14-11-1986,How will be my future,my carrier marriage. is mine is a love marriage? I wanna know about my carreer & married life,wether mine is a love marriage or an arranged marriage.
What is the difference between the love in marriage and love in a friendship? Christian answersare appreciated? christian answers are appreciated please. i'm 17 years old and learning how to truly love somebody. to me, the only way to love somebody is to serve them, protecting, being patient, giving etc. in a friendship, this is very easily attainable. however in a romantic relationship, emotions get entangled and it is so hard to focus on the true reason why we were created-- to do God's work. but how can one "court" or be married without having those emotions and attractions. what is marriage? how do christians know that that someone is the one God intended for them to be with?
How are attitudes towards love and marriage in India, different from here in Canada? My first answer was traditionally in India marriage proceeds love, where as in Canada love proceeds marriage.
What were the views on love and marriage in the Elizabethan Era? How did they view love and marriage and what were the values of it?
What significance does the bee hold in marriage, love, & mythology? Pete Wentz gave Ashlee Simpson a huge bumble-bee made entirely out of Leggos as a wedding gift. Apparently, the reason he gave her a bee was because of its significance in marriage, love, & mythology. Can anyone tell me what this significance is? What does the bee represent?
Is it too early or young for me to start thinking about marriage and love ? I'm only 18 years old and i'm starting to think a lot lately about love and marriage, i don't know why. I'm always thinking about having a girlfriend and always thinking about getting married and have a family and stuffs. I've realized that i really want a women in my life because i have no girl at all. But is it too young or early for me to start thinking about marriage and love ??? I've starting liking girls since i was 15 years old.
How to convince Christan parents for love marriage? Both are Christan but cast different? Please give me correct answer,we both love each other,we dont want to leave our family as we love them a loat.But its not possible for us to live without eachother
So is it bad to focus more on career/self than love/marriage? I been so focused on relationship/men I lost myself. So i decided to focus on a nursing career and myself than love. I want marriage and kids but that's not my main thing now.
What do u people believe in love marriage or arrange marriage..? According to me it should be arranged love marriage
Will I have a love or arranged marriage? I was born on 21-2-1980 at 02:50AM(early morning) in Mumbai. Can anybody tell me whether I'll have a love marriage or an arranged one. Please let me know when will I get married?
Is it really love marriage is better than arrange marriage? I think love is some wonderfull thnink which make life is so meaningfull. Some people’s are blindly oppose love for their family respect and stupid old culture. And more parents not accept their children’s choice. How i will compromise their?
What are the Benefits of Being a Virgin until you Fall in Love or Marriage? What are benefit's of Waiting to have Sex with Some one you Love or Marriage, Instead of just having a One Night Stand?
In India is it more common to have a love marriage or an arranged marriage in the Northern part of India? I only want to hear from someone in India. Also if it is arranged does that mean they don't get to know each other before marriage?
which is bettor arrange or love marriage ? do u know india has one of the lowest divorce rate in world in which more than 95 % are arrange marriage.many peoples don't like arrange marriage but finally they still do it. & love marriages fails more than arrange marriage. of course love is important in life but that's not all. both men & woman have to be matured to take responsibilities . shaadi is not a fairy tale.u have to take up lots of responsibilities also. & trust is most important & honesty.
what does it take to have a fairy tale wedding/marriage/love? I'm creating a themed gift for my cousin for her bridal shower. I want to give her things to help her have a "fairy tale" wedding/marriage/love. I am looking for ideas. So far I have a romantic cd (Disney Favorites), a book starring her and her fiance, I'm up for any ideas.
How to Convince Parents when u want to do Love marriage? I am in love with a girl.She too loves me a lot.Our parents are against our relationship, the reason is 'CASTE'. Don't know what do, I want my parents as well as my love.
I had a love marriage last month.But still we were not able to make a sexual intercourse why ? We love and respect each other earnestly. We dont have any problem.And my wife enjoy the foreplay also.
Is having casual sex with girl friends better than love and marriage? Is having casual sex with girl friends better than love and marriage sexual intercourse? It seems to me that we have been programmed as a race to really butcher marriage and love, at least in American society.
What are the similarities between arranged and love marriage? please tell me at least two similarities between arranged marriage and love marriage
Do Christians not believe in love in marriage? According to some opponents of same sex marriage, gays already have equal rights because they can marry someone of the opposite sex. Are they really that cold? Isn't it rather sad to believe love is insignificant compared to the proper allotment of genitalia when defining marriage?
In Indian arranged marriage system must there exist love always? I mean should the girl love b4 marriage or love develops after marriage slowly?Pls give an impartial answer ...
Is it worth the wait? Should I wait for love or marriage before having sex? I am a 23 year old virgin! Yeah, I know. I grew up in a very strict household and was taught to wait until marriage. Well, since I've left the house and I have formed my own opinions on sex and marriage, I now believe that I should just wait for love before I have sex but I still wonder, is it worth the wait? For those who waited until marriage, is it really better to wait until your wedding night? If so, what makes it better? Give me your opinions.
Do you support love marriage or arrange marriage? Both has its positive points In arrange marriage ,parents have the experience in life and can be fully trusted. They knew what they want for us in life, our desires, our likings. Love marriage too has its advantage of knowing the person fully we are going to live with.. What do you say???
Is It True That Long Term Friendships Can Lead To A Love Relationship/Marriage? I have been told that if you have a long term friendship with the right girl who is good friends with you it can possilbly lead to a great love relationship. And possibly even marriage. Can that be true?? Please answer with answers- not comments. Please answer intelligently. Because I have gotten mean comments and alot of senseless answers. Thank You Eveyone! Longnailslover.
can someone give me some Ideas on valves in life on love and marriage? I am writing an essay on love and marriage can someone help me plz?
Love marriage is correct or not ? Why most of people in India are against of love marriage? Actually i love a girl,she belongs to other caste and we want to marry.we both know our family will never accept us for this. we don"t want to hurt them but we want to marry.so what we shall do?
What are some good movies about marriage and love? I need some movies that show that love is needed to make a marriage. Any suggestions?
am not in love with anyone, is it good to get arranged marriage or love marriage ? am not in love with anyone, is it good to get arranged marriage or love marriage ?
To the young women: is yours an arranged or love marriage? How many proposals did you have before the guy finally accepted you? What excuse did those guys give who rejected you? Did you feel rejected and hopeless thinking you are not beautiful/smart/rich and will never have a chance at marriage but then when you least expected a guy comes along who accepts you for what you are and married you?
I have a question about interaccial love/marriage in the UAE? I hear and have seen so many non-Emirati women fall in love with Emirati men only to have their hearts broken. So my question is can a relationship with an Emirati boy and a non-Emirati woman really last or is it destined to fail?
What does Love means does marriage and Love can different ? I am confused , want to know what does a true love means and how do we know it is true love and is that loves only can keep for ever after get marriage , I married but not got Love , I think I got Love but not get married with ..
What does unconditional love mean in a marriage? What does unconditional love mean in a marriage? And does it have an expiration date? How many of you have examples of unconditional love in your marriages?
Can you love your wife if your marriage was arranged by your parents? I am a 32 yr old man.I dont live in the US and mine is a totally arranged marriage (arranged by the parents) with my consent. So, u americans might not fully understand my situation. But i'll try to explain. I have just seen her photos and talked to her by phone. She is not beautiful or attractive. Has v small breasts. I dont love her and neither does she love me. I am only marrying her because all the other pretty women whom i love or loved, dump/dumped me once they hear about my medical history(I have chronic depression, OCD and severe headaches; i am on treatment, 70-80% better) (or their parents dump me). Our parents are v conservative and dont believe that i should meet her before marriage. When i told her about my diseases (on phone), i was expecting that she would dump me too, but she was very considerate, which really impressed me. Today i'll try to video chat with her.(people say that in arranged marriages, love comes after the marriage).Will i love her after marriage??? Another reason that i am not sexually attracted towards her is that she is also 32 years old with not very attractive facial features. The small breasts also put me off. I wana see her in real life and talk to her face to face, but a video chat is the nearest i can get right now. We are also engaged and getting married after about 3 months. But i am very worried if i'll be attracted to her enough to be able to make love to her on the wedding night? Hopefully the video chat (if she agreed to it) would clear some of my inhibitions. My mother says she is a nice woman and she would be willing to sacrifice for you (as all "GOOD" asian women are supposed to do)
How to convience my parents for love marriage? i don't want to hurt my parents & also dun want to hurt my love.i' m in tense n dont know wat to do & wat step to take.My boyfriends parents are very supportive to me.But i don't know how to convience my parents.plz help me..........
can you make out from your horoscope whether you will have a love marriage or arranged marriage? can your horoscope indicate whether you will have alove or arranged marriage? and also age at which one will marry?
What is surrender in love, romance and marriage? I've heard this term used in music and poetry in relation to love and romance? How do you interpret its meaning in that context? How does it apply in a practical sense in marriage?
Help me define how the environment influences love, relationships and marriage? I am writing a paper for my psychology class,and I need to gather information about how the environmental influences can alter these human conditions. The original questions from my directions are: What is the cultural definition of love? How are relationships defined by our culture? How is marriage portrayed?-- If you can help me out with this experiment/study I could use your opinions and/or thoughts about the questions.
Love after marriage is not really love, am I right? I am facing this issue, I think that the relationship between two non-committed male and female is much better than married couples. When there is commitment, there are fights, fights over misunderstandings, fights over incompatibility issues, everyday seems painful. Why do we get married then? I mean when there is no commitment, you are free, you feel freedom, you are happy, when you are married, it is like being in a jail, punished, can't talk, can't say, can't do what you like but what both like and stuff like that. Is it possible to live happily with true love when you are married or is it never possible after marriage. Or am I just unlucky?
Do you stay in your marriage without love just for children? I am a stay at home mom. I don't have a market skills for a job, with which could raise my children. My husband doesn't care about me at all. I feel very pain in the marriage without any love. But I fear divorce. I think if we divorce, my children's life will be miserable because I don't trust he will give a good care to our children. And I am 40 years old woman. I don't know what's my future for a 40 years old woman without a career.
Renaissance ways of thinking... what were their beliefs/values in regards to marriage, love and family? I need to know what was happening at the time, what people believed was important, in regards to marriage, love, respecting parents and your family, anything else. Thanks :)
How can you tell if you will have a love or arranged marriage? By looking at your palms, is there a way that you can tell if you will have a love or arranged marriage?
Fate of love marriage with out parents consent? gal contemplating for love marriage in india, her parents are not interested.What are the consequences,will it flurish.advise plz
What are different ideas and effects of love and arrange marriage in Eastern, Western and Islamic Societies? People of different societies have different thinking approach about love marriage and arrange marriage. Why people like or dislike love or arrange marriage. Which one is liked much. Eastern, Western and Islamic systems have different approaches. Which is best in your view and why? Describe your region and religion for analysis.
Do love marriage need horoscope matching, i want to match my horoscope with my lover? we are in love for 10 yrs, since my father not accepting it, we done register marriage 2 yrs back. now we r in plan to get marry in temple and to lead a peaceful life. his parents saw horoscope matching for us, they told ragu in my seventh place and shani in his second place wont match. so they r refusing our marriage. we r loving sincerly for 10 years. we cant live without each other. please give me some pariharam to come away from this problem. we didnt marry yet but we r living in heart as couples.please help us to have our life together with peaceful. we r willing to do any pariharam to god. My date of birth: 19.02.1985, time: 11.08pm, Salem tamilnadu name: preethini, his date of birth: 10.08.1976, time: 06.27 am, salem tamilnadu, name : manivannan Do love marriage need horoscope matching, i want to match my horoscope with my lover? we are in love for 10 yrs, since my father not accepting it, we done register marriage 2 yrs back. now we r in plan to get marry in temple and to lead a peaceful life. his parents saw horoscope matching for us, they told ragu in my seventh place and shani in his second place wont match.they also telling i am having mangal dosha so they r refusing our marriage. we r loving sincerly for 10 years. we cant live without each other. please give me some pariharam to come away from this problem. we didnt marry yet but we r living in heart as couples.please help us to have our life together with peaceful. we r willing to do any pariharam to god. My date of birth: 19.02.1985, time: 11.08pm, Salem tamilnadu name: preethini, his date of birth: 10.08.1976, time: 06.27 am, salem tamilnadu, name : manivannan. plz tell me whether i am having mangal dosha.help us
If your love is a success then you say love marriages are good otherwise? Successful love marriaged couples says love marriage is good, But after marriage love changes and the reality is hardening their relationship then those guys says luvmarg is bad arranged is gud also those in the case of when we lost our lover too we respond like with these 2 answers. So "kittatha munthiringa pulikkum or puliyulla munthiringa chavarkuum"
What is the difference between a love marriage and an arranged marriage? What is the difference between a love marriage and an arranged marriage?
Do you really believe in unconditional love in a marriage? Most relationships start in an unconditional way but as you get to know your partner in marriage things change. A love for your own child is unconditional for most of us. Ask yourself - do you love you partner like your own child?
A girl ran out from home for love marriage and her parents were totally against their love.? A girl ran out from home for love marriage and her parents were totally against their love. now girl got married with that guy. parents feel...In future,that girl would come again for father's property but parents are not willing to give share to them. *Is girl having rights to cliam fathers property since parents are against their marriage? *What are all steps do we need to avoid problem(ofcourse i should council this matter with lawyer but leave ur suggestion here).
What do you think about interracial relationship - love and dating and marriage? What do you think about interracial relationship - love and dating and marriage? What are the advantages and disadvantages in an interracial relationship and marriage? How do different cultures affect parenting and raising a family? How about having in-laws of different culture?
what is the best way to convince an orthodox family which stands against love marriage? i am a divorcee and she is a college student.{major}. since our love is true we would like to get married. because of caste difference we face the problem. my family has accepted her. the problem is with her family. suggest me your experiences or suggestions to make this marriage to be a real one. as i said earlier we both have understood each other well.
Arranged or love marriage, Can anyone test a life partner's body whether healthy or having some blood clots? Now a days it is becoming impossible to check the health of a life partner since his/her appearance can be excellent but there may be pre-existing diseases which cropped from teenage. So how can a innocent girl/boy/parent be able to check the life partner's health?
wHETHER MINE LOVE OR ARRANGE MARRIAGE WANT TO KNOW? Just wanted to know whether will i have love marriage or arrange marriage.
Charlotte Lucas views on love and marriage in Pride and Prejudice? In Pride and Prejudice how are Charlotte Lucas's views on love and marriage different from the other main characteres views
What do you prefer, love marriage or arranged marriage? Love marriage means, we can understand about our future partner vry well, but arranged marriage means it’s something like being with a stranger. But how come in country like in India they can agree with it but they strongly disagree with love? Is it means tht they never trust people they know well rather thn a stranger??
Does Mr Bennet in Pride and Prejudice believe in marriage for love or convenience? I'm writing an english essay, and I just need to check this before I write it, Does Mr Bennet in Pride and Prejudice believe in marriage for love or convenience? pleaaseee help, it's very important coursework!
why arranged marriage last longer than love marriage ? Why do all young boys think arranged marriage and girls love marriage ? why arranged marriage last longer than love marriage ?
How is my love and marriage life? Hi, Could someone plzzzz tell me what my love and marriage life will be? I was born on Sep 14th, 1980, at 8:15am. place of birth is Kuwait City. Thanks in advance!
Is there a book on love marriage? One that does not work out as expected? I mean a book where the love marriage doesn't work out as expected by the characters.
What is the success rate of Love marriage. Also let me know your opinion regarding Love and Arrange marriage? Please give me the answers for the above 2 questions Expecting answers from every one :)
my DOB is 26th march, 1987, place of birth is Ahmedabad and birth time is 00:14min. Do i have love marriage ? I am planning to give CAT and other management exams, this Nov-Dec.What are my chances in those exams ? Will i be successful ?
What do you think we will see in 2011? Intercaste marriage is on a full swing, we see lots of love marriages? What do you think of India in the year 2011? Most of the parents are worried as intercaste marriage and love marriages are getting more and more in India and due to this the name of the childrens are also given importance as a child whose parents are hindu/christian the child has to accordingly go to decide whether to go to church or temple for prayers? Can anyone suggest any remedy to this situation or problem?
Is it really difficult to maintain love marriage? I want to marry my gf but having fear for it? I have a 3 year realtion with my girl friend. soon we are going to marry but dont know why there is a fear rising in my heart? Although she loves me a lot than too She is not fully satisfied with me. I cant experess her this fear. She cant be live without me. I never want to leave her but ........why such negetive things coming to my mind? plz guide me.
She is afraid whether her parents will accept love marriage? I like her and i love her. I proposed her,but she is afraid of getting committed.She likes me loads but she can't love me. I am also afraid whether my parents will accept.. what should i do?
What is the difference between arranged marriage and love marriage in Indian context? Hope this question brings some interesting customs prevailing in India!
How do you get someone you love to stop proposing marriage when you know you're not ready? You're in love with someone deeply and the feeling's mutual, but you know you're not ready for marriage even though you are in love with him. You have concerns about marriage in general and aren't convinced to go down that road anytime soon. You know you will always be with him, that you're not going anywhere and reassure him of that, but he persistently asks. How do you get him to stop proposing marriage---without losing him?
Does true love continues after marriage? How to keep it? Love or true love... Those people who love each other, does this love disappear after marriage? How to keep love after marriage?. Thanks.
Do you love adultery more than marriage? Do you love adultery more than marriage?
Have you ever fall in love with marriage person? Have you? and did u have any regrets?
Why are you people such hypocrites? Tell me to marry for love not $, meanwhile youre having marriage problems? if u married for the "right" reasons, why is your marriage NOT perfect?
Have any of you bought the Love Dare book and tried to use it to help save your marriage? My wife and I bought the book, now our marriage is going strong, but we felt, hey, it couldn't hurt to try it to make our marriage stronger. We got it after watching the movie Fireproof with Kirk Cameron.
Why do females find it difficult to propose love or marriage to males? Is there any religious or cultural values that have shaped females mind against the idea of proposing love or marriage to males? Please support your answers with striking events, personal experience, or any statistics to dramatize the issue if possible.
what's the difference between love marriage and arranged marriage? Is love marriage is good or arranged marriage
Is an arranged marriage better than a love marriage? Write an essay with 200-300 words. Use your own ideas, experiences, examples, and facts to support your argument.
Love and marriage go together, like a horse and carriage ? Do you think marriage improves your sex life, slows it down drastically,or sex remains the same after marriage as it was before ? Checkers ! How did your psych teacher explain the 50% divorce rate ?
Love or arranged marriage for a divorcee? Hi, I'm a divorcee. My first marriage was completely an aranged marriage. How should my second marriage be ? Should it be an arranged one or love marriage ? Do I still have to go with the same arranged marriage once more, thinking about society and all ? Please help
Do you believe in love and marriage? I personally don't, not anymore. Love is emotional terror and marriage is a trap. I had a girlfriend and it ended in hell and there's women who aren't my type, now I'm a misogynist. Do you believe in love and marriage? What are your opinions? Whats the point of marriage? Love doesn't exist, right?
What ever happen to love,marriage,and then baby? Does anyone remember the little song kids sing first comes love then comes marriage then comes the baby in the baby carriage? Is it just me or do people seem to think more and more that having a baby before marriage is the greatest idea? We wonder as a society there has been a decline in good parenting it is because we as parents lead by example and when we don't set the good example in good morals how can we expect our kids to. I would love some honest feedback I don't mean to offend I just want opinions. People who are saying that they are engaged and then have children you are proving my point weddings don't have to be expensive.Also those who say you can't help it yes you can don't have sex before marriage that tends to help!
Wedding speech/reading that compares love/marriage to crayons, or the different colors? went to a wedding a few years ago where the priest had a reading comparing love/marriage to the different colors in a box of crayons. I have a friend getting married in a few weeks and wants something a little different. Anyone know where to find it or have it to copy and paste here for me?? I would appreciate it sooo much! Thank youu!! (this specific one i am talking about actually mentions each color and something special about it pertaining to marriage and/or love)
when will i get job?to whom i will get marry?will it be a love marriage or arrange? i was in love with a person, he too loved me a lot. but after 5years, another boy came into my life... i loved the first person,but too i cant give negative opinion to the second one.he loves me too.pls help me soon. i am in a big dilemma. whom shall i marry? i just want to know about my future.
Why people love each other before marriage but quarrel after marrying ? what beauties did they actually see in each other before marriage ? what made them think they r tailor cut out for each other ? where did all their love fly to after a few years of marriage ?
How to make my love to marriage? I proposed my girlfriend. She also likes me. But she is avoiding me as she is telling that her parents will never accept love. I m very much upset because of this.
how can you tell if "true-love" is a solid foundation for marriage or not? when i have found that love grows within marriage, or marriage fails miserably. people actually wait for their spouce to die in old belief systems.
At what age will i get married? will there be a love marriage or a arranged? my age is 26,my d.o.b is 15th november 1982 & time is 2:00a.m in chandigarh
Emotional difference between arranged marriage and Love marriage? Can you explain the emotional difference between the arranged marriage and love marriage. More clear explanations are welcomed.
Is a love marriage discouraged in Islam? If not, then how are we supposed to fall in love if we are not allowed to like date. It's not like I want to have a boyfriend, but how are people supposed to find their soul mate, if in Islam, we are not even allowed to talk to the opposite sex? This is an honest question. No attitude intended. So you're allowed to converse, or talk to the opposite gender? Really?
what does islam says about making love before marriage? im a 21 years old muslim girl and im in love with a 24 years old boy, we are gonna marry but i dont think its the right time...about him he want to marry now...he asks me if atleast we can make love now,...what do u think is it ok if i do it coz i want to marry the same guy but i need time?or still its haraam?
Which is better, love marriage or arrange marriage ? Which is better, love marriage or arrange marriage ?
How important is unconditonal love in a marriage...? When you marry someone it is for better or worse, (unconditional love) I know a lot of people make a lot of mistakes. I am amazed at all the perfect people here on Yahoo answers. Why do you get so much negative feedback for trying to stick through better or worse? People screw up, they have affairs, anything can happen given the right circumstances. But just because someone broke a wedding vow, (and showing great remorse, guilt, shame, etc, etc) why do some people it is so bad to try and forgive. Now if it was multiple affairs or abuse I understand but...one screw up and everyone wants to label the person for life. I am a true believer of second chances. I would like to know I would get one if I did something I regretted. I think it is too easy to get out of a marriage today, people should be required to go to counseling and TRY to work on things. Maybe that is why the divorce rate is so high, when things get bad, people dont think about the vow THEY are going to break the "for better or worse " one. Dont you think people should at least try to honor this? ***I did not mean to offend anyone with the 'perfect people' comment, Im just saying there are so many people hollering dont forgive...get out...to me that is saying that they think they are perfect, they make no mistakes...because if they did, or ever have, they would know how much a second chance could mean. Thats all I meant.
In Romeo and Juliet: What diffrent viewpoints of love and marriage are present in the play so far? The prologue of the play reveals its ending. What effect does this have on the readers during acts 1-3? A soliloquy is a speech delivered by a charcter who is alone onstage. Find a soliloquy in act 3. A aside is a comment heard by the audience or another character onstage. Find an aside in act 3.
Why dont love last after marriage ? I mean there is a love story then engagment then MARRIAGE , that means love ends with marriage , Then comes the Fights , then maybe you will get used on the partner , But before marriage , love stories exist !!
Would you call this love, lust, or... marriage?? LOVE: When you're only interested in doing things with your partner. LUST: When you're only interested in doing things to your partner. MARRIAGE: When you're only interested in your golf score. LOVE: You only leave the house to buy coffee and donuts. LUST: You only leave the house to buy condoms and Vaseline. MARRIAGE: You only leave the house when you're allowed. LOVE when your eyes meet across a crowded room LUST when your tongues meet across a crowded room MARRIAGE when your belt won't meet around your waist, and you don't care LOVE when you phone each other just to say "Hi" LUST when you phone each other just to organize sex MARRIAGE when you phone each other to find out what time your son's game starts
How to dance Love and Marriage by Frank Sinatra? It's for the first dance of a wedding next week end. We are not great dancers and we can't make dance lessons either. Thanks
Do you think love and marriage wears out in a matter of time? I was just curious on people's opinions because nowadays it seems that people fall out of love, cheat, or just do stupid things in a marriage. People divorce even after 5, 10, 15 years of marriage still. Do you think love doesn't last nowadays?
Help with marriage,love and society in elizabethan times? i am studying romeo and Juliet and we have been given a historical content worksheet...i have answered most question but these are remaining...can anone help me find the answers plz 1) Who would arrange the marriage of a female and a suitor? 2) How would Elizabethan society view a young female wooing (romancing) a lover?
How to predict a marriage whether it is love/arranged in an horoscope? The horoscope is sagittarious ascendant and moon in cancer. how to predict whether it is love/arranged form of marriage? and the moon is in cancer combined with saturn and sun. what about this combination.will the native be happy?.
Why does mostly love marriage end on divorce? Westerner women and men enjoy more then rights rest of the world. Bigining of love afairs they always commite very extra promises. They believe love marriage than arranged marriage. Specialy Nepalese, indian and chinese people do arraneged marriege and their family life is more stable and faithful each other (wife and husband) Why does love marriege mostaly end on divorce in west?
What will you do if you fall in love with someone outside your marriage? I am in a marriage where i cannot leave my partner because i have got a 1 year old child but want to be with the person i really love. I love my husband as well, he is a very nice person i met this person on othersite of the world and he knows all about me and still loves me i really do not know what to do can someone help?
How does love and marriage work? Are fights good as they add realism to the situation? Why do fights that start out with toilet seats become I hate you's and I despise your mother?
What do u prefer love marriage or arrange marriage? What do u prefer love marriage or arrange marriage
People are always looking for love, but most of them are just looking for marriage, not love. Agree? Love doesn't equal marriage. Marriage is just a system imposed by the society to encourage a certain way of sexual activities needed by many individuals. However, Love is an affection, a feeling inside our minds. You may love more than one persons. Nowadays, the one you want to marry may not be the one you really love. In modern society, so many factors have influenced us and they include financial ones inevitably. The chance that you can FIND a perfect match for yourself AND STAY TOGETHER is so statistically remote. So what is Love? And how to? Does it necessarily involve sacrifice? And if one cannot find one he/she true love, should he/she just marry someone he/she likes but does not love?
Why did Thomas Hardy have a negative view of love and marriage? I'm doing AS English Literature and am studying The Return of the Native.
What is uppermost in considering marriage? Love for the gal or for her character? Am considering a serious lifetime relationship with this gal that is disciplined, God fearing and focused. I like her for all those qualities, but she doesn't have much charm and beauty and also doesn't make my heart jump at her sight. A life with her will be ordered and straight and i wont have to worry about her fidelity. If I marry her, will i not make myself vulnerable to temptation by gals that possess more charm and beauty? Please assist.
I have married in October 2006 and mine was love cum arranged marriage, we want to get registered legally pls? I have married in October 2006 and mine was love cum arranged marriage, we want to get registered legally pls let me know the procedure to go and is it possible to get registered now after 1.4yrs. we both are resident of Bangalore south division. please help us in this and want a marriage certificate .
what is procedure of performing love marriage at arya sanaj mandir without the presence of either parents? me and my partner like to get married without the presence of our parents,then what documents do we need at that time in details how much it costs
Marriage can be love/hate. How often to you despise your spouse? I know that sometimes marriage is a love / hate relationship. I'm curious to know how often you feel as if you despise your spouse? And what type of things bring on those feelings. Just for the record... I didn't say that I personally have a love/hate relationship with MY spouse. I asked about YOUR relationship with YOUR spouse. I am happy to see so many that do not think it is love/hate. I suppose a lot depends on the baggage each spouse brings with them into the marriage.
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