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How do I stop thinking about what others think of me being a success or failure?

I think if I stopped thinking about what others think of my actions (which are constructive ones usually) I can focus more and increase success rate. How do I stop thinking and get my confidence out of a set of beliefs and values?

Public Comments

1. As a human being this is going to be an issue...Careing what others think isn't the issue here...That should help you becuase if you remember others are watching and are judging your actions you should make better choices because you know thaey are going to judge you for them good or bad...
2. sounds like low self-worth, need people to like you...either conform with the herd or be yourself
3. Set your own standard. Think about what really makes YOU happy. Then do it. That is really what success is. As far as beliefs and values..., I think most of them are installed during childhood. Although, for whatever reasons, we all form our own as we grow, develop and live life.
4. only you can tell if you are successful in life because one measurement of success is happiness. so, don't let other people set the standard for you. each one of us is gifted and equipped to hone our life..know and do whatever makes you happy and satisfied. minding others will only make you clamor for more yet never satisfied..
5. Well you just set your mind on what you want to achieve, like the big picture and then do the small parts to get the big picture then you doing well specially if its a goal that is pro- survival. But i know that when you do really well you get lots of people who envy you and try to cut you short and try to get in your way.