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is it o.k to send happy birthday wishes to an ex boyfriend?

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1. Don't waste postage or time.
2. Why not ,thougn i would prefer him sending birthday wishes to me !
3. if you are friends. if not, it may complicate things
4. depends on how your friendship with your ex is.
5. Sure. Send him out a card or text message him. Nothing wrong with letting him know you remembered him on his day!
6. why would you want to? hes your ex. why would you care? especially if you already have a boyfriend now, that would be disrespectful to your current bf.
7. it will only hurt you more...i tried to call my ex for his birthday last yr and found out his number was changed...
8. I still send them to my ex girl friends. Only had one bad ending & that was my ex wife. Silly Cow
9. Depends on what terms your on. If you are still speaking then go for it. If it ended on a bad note and you no longer speak to him then I wouldnt.
10. of corse if you guys are still friends go for it!
11. just keep it friendly don't give him any ideas inless that is what you want to do?
12. Yes, why not? Just because you are no longer a couple doesn't mean you have forgotten him and no longer care for him. He will appreciate it as long as the words are not too sloppy!
13. There is nothing wrong with it - I think it would be nice of you (although the current girlfriend might not appreciate it)
14. have to be crazy if your not friends any more
15. No, you'll send him the wrong sign. He'll think you still have feelings for him or something to that extent.
16. I dont know good question. Its kinda hard not to. Just do it anyway, he might get the picture.
17. Depends on your relationship with him now. If you still talk and are friends then of course, if you hardly speak since the break up then it will just complicated things and cause problems.
18. yes why not?
19. why not, if u r still friends, there's nothing wrong with that.
20. Yes! after all, You were friends first, right?
21. Not unless you wish to patch up with him.
22. It proves to the Dude that U R still thinking about him.
23. It all depends on your intentions!!If you do it because you are still friends and it is common courtesy, it's fine. But if you do it, to make him remember not to forget you, to annoy his new girlfriend, as an evil plot the get him back or any other deep, dark and devious reason ... ITS WRONG!!
24. i do all the time but i never get anything from him on my b-day
25. Think what you want him to feel, do you want to patch? let him know you are still thinking of him? show how important he is in your life? Its up to you... best wishes
26. as long as your his present
27. Yah why not as long as it ends but the fact that you had to think about whether it was alright or not to send the message might mean you still got feelings for the brother, so well follow your heart what you want is what you should get.