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Is therer a book on how to lead a better more successful life?

I really enjoy reading non-fiction, self improvement / personal development style books. So far they have all fallen short of helping me achieve my life goals. Is there a book, workbook or guide that will help me be more charismatic, better looking, more charming, successful in business, happier in life and family? I know your temptation might be to say the bible but I'm looking for something secular. If you have to suggest more than one book please do.

Public Comments

1. there are tons..just go to the library. try reading the seven habits for highly effective people.
2. Characteristics of Successful Persons Are committed to their goals Are able to set priorities Have learned how to learn Are results oriented Continually seek new challenges Manage stress effectively Focus on a mission Learn how to make decisions Practice mental rehearsal Take calculated risks Maintain flexibility a\Ask for what they want Are able to ask the right questions Keep their promises Are good listeners Can tolerate rejection and loss Practice persistence Avoid perfectionism Accept help from successful people Trust their hunches Are able to negotiate Anticipate what can go wrong Feel good about themselves Strive to improve Practice patience Are assertive when necessary Are honest Are able to see the other person’s point of view Avoid self-pity Use praise more than criticism Learn to say now Trust themselves