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She called to wish me happy birthday should I respond?

She called about a week after and said happy belated birthday. Does she still care I can't tell. Its been a few days and I haven't responded I'm still trying to get over her. Should I respond to keep communication open.

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If she's your girlfriend: thanks I love you so much. If she's a friend: thank you
dont read too much into it, well dont let her know you are anyway, just reply saying thank you :)
I'd just call her to acknowledge that she remembered your birthday and say thank you and leave it at that.
of course u should dude, get something
Trust me, keeping that communication open hinders the process of getting over her. If you want to fall right back into that trap and get hurt again, go for it, but my ex and I did that for a year. Its not worth it. Move on and dont look back.
just respond and tel her thank you for remembering your birthday.
i think u should respond back.. if its someone u dont talk to then dont...
HELLO YES RESPOND.
well text her and say thanks.
Darn right. You should put some icing on your meatpuppet and tell her to lick it off.
Of course you need to respond to her! I assume she's your ex right? No matter who did wrong, you can't treat her as transparent. What happens if someday you happen to meet her at the street? Reply her a thank you. At least you have done your basic etiquette and retain your pride.
dude you treat girls like there a different species or sumthing so she called a little late whats wrong with that?
It seems like she is an ex.. if she is an ex dont respond. When you respond it makes her think that you are interested.
the right thing to do would be to call her back or txt her or w/e saying thanks for remembering my birthday, and thats all. Thats the polite thing to do. please answer my question http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AlvsRbtIfOgTp2TjqpXKpq_sy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20081016225345AA9NykA
If you still like her I mean most girls wouldn't even call to say happy belated birthday if you want to see whats gonna happen then yeah go ahead or you can stay friends for now! If you think its good enough that you should get over her then just don't respond leave things the way they are
Respond. If you're trying to get over her, then just think of her as... an old friend trying to stay in touch.
Of course. What have you to lose? There may be a relationship waiting to be built.
Reply and say thank you!
No i wouldnt. Its late, it shows she had other priorities ahead of you.... esp if your trying to get over her plz help me? http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Ah7GU1m6PctTvAdhX7wojFrsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20081017154305AA3xN4y
Well sad guy the question is really are you sure you want to get over her. Don't lead her on, if you really don't want to be with her as that would be very wrong. However, if you have had a change of heart, then admit you miss her and was touched that she remembered your birthday. Nonetheless, their is no harm in letting her know that you appreciate her belated wishes, ask her how she is doing, and if you just want to be friends then offer to be. Some of the best relationships start out of friendships. I know as I married my best friend and when my son was struggling with girl situations I reminded him of this as well. He thought I was crazy. I supported his choices and guess what, he later married his first love as well. They now have two beautiful little girls and are truly each others soul mates. Sometimes what people are looking for in life, is right in front of them. Sure their are ups and downs, but at the end of the day when they are the one you want most to talk to and share your day with, what better one to do this with than your best friend. So anyway, whatever you do, don't send her mixed signals and don't lead her on, be open and honest and take it one step at a time, one day at a time. I think you hate to admit it, but you miss her and I think you are miserable-so you know what to do, pick up the phone and start dialing buddy, you might be glad you did.