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I don't know where to go in life...help?

I'm 15 years old and i'm a sophomore in high school. everyone seems to have chosen their paths expect me. i want to be someone ppl can look up to and say "wow, i want to be just like her". expect i'm quiet and have trouble speaking up. theres a program in my school called jrotc and i dont know which team in jrotc i should pick. drill unarmed team is very dedicated and i think i can work hard and ignore the drama that goes on there. but if i be in drill team, i have to go to pratices everyday after school and saturdays too. if i dont join drill and go to another team like academic or drum, i can balance all my things out. my older sister was in academic and i feel bad cus noones joining academic anymore and everyones leaving. most likely if i join drill, i will prolly go to the college called west point since its so dedicating and takes up studying time...

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1. I would not worry about knowing where you are going quite yet. Enjoy your youth and time in high school. I am a senior in college, and I have friends who still don't know what they want to do.
2. Ok chill. A lot of those people who have decided at 15 will change their mind lots of times. People even do it when they're in college. That's perfectly fine. Who said that you need to decide right now or when you go away to college what you will do with the rest of your life? Life is a constant work in progress and can only be taken one day at a time. IF you are shy, work on it every day, over time you will be able to overcome your shyness and be more outgoing. Just try out the team that you will like the most. Don't feel bad, do what would be the most enjoyable.
3. i say that you should take your time in life and explore different things and learn how to speak up
4. You sound as if you worry too much - chill out! No one can really plan their future, because no one knows what it holds anyway!
5. do drill it sounds fun , and dont worry . just follow the river and it will lead to the right shore .