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The rate of success for such a relationship?

I am currently dating a 24yr old and i am 25. we are both still in school. He wants to get married by 28 or 29 which means i will be 30. he also wants to attend medical school and have 5 children while i plan on being a teacher. How possible is it that this plan will be successful between these 2 people?

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1. Sounds not bad, except for the 5 kids part! Having a new kid every year or something??
2. If you love them and truely would do anything for them then why not? If you work toward a goal it happens eventually right? well that's how a relationship is...you have to make and beat certain obstacles and once you do that and your stable as a couple anything can happen if you try.
3. It won't be! Unless you both agree on what you want. You BOTH have to be on the same page about what you want to do in your life together. Perhaps one or both of you can compromise, but in the end, you both need to be happy as well. If you don't communicate with one another and talk about your wants and needs, it will all end in tears.
4. you guys can comprimise if you're really compatible answer mine! http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AkIiv2SU8CQUYMXgcD4gyFTsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20081118173423AAeZX0N
5. No one can say how successful a plan like this can be. There are so many factors in this that no one can simply say it will be X successful. It depends on the people, there drive and determination to reach the goals they have set forth for themselves. Food for thought: As for the children at 30. If you start right off the bat and have one each year you will go mad having that many young ones running around so early in an marriage, If you space them out every 2 years you will be 40 by the time the last one is born, 58 by the time it graduates from school.
6. Don't worry about the success rate. If that is all you think about, you will just make yourself nervous. You will always be tense and won't enjoy him. Worrying about the success rate is basing your relationship on someone else's. Your relationship is unique to you two. Just love him and have a good life.
7. This plan can work however, it takes a lot of compromise and sacrifice from both parts...his has to be willing to sacrificee for you and vice versa.
8. Family Planning is a good thing. Keep dreaming.