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is it rude my BEST friend didnt write happy birthday on my facebook?

for those who use facebook you know that when its ur birthday all ur friends write happy birthday on ur wall... anyway my best friend didnt. she didnt even text me to say happy birthday. the only thing she did was come over and surprised me and brought me a cupcake but thats it...i still thought she shoulda wrote on my wall....what do u think.

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no
Maybe she's waiting till midnight to make it extra special. Or spamming your wall right now but you can't tell because your computer is lagging so badly. Don't be oversensitive. Oversensitivity kills.
I would be grateful that she bought over a cupcake and surprised you, maybe you expect to much
i think you need to wise up. she came over to see you on your birthday rather than write a comment on a social networking site. personally for me i'd rather a friend visit me in person and bring a little gift (no matter how little) than leave a comment on my bebo/my space/facebook. the personal touch wins everytime and this shows she cares.
It's not that important for somebody to write 'happy birthday' on Facebook, is it? Maybe she didn't log on the day of your birthday & didn't see it, that's why she came round instead? At least she came round instead of nothing at all, be greatful!
no it's just the internet maybe she is planning a supprise party
well, if she would have wrote it on your wall, it wouldn't have been a surprise after wards when she brought you a cupcake and stuff, I think she was just trying to make it a surprise for you
Omg shes ur best friend. She went over ur house and brought a cupcake! Which is way better then typing some quick words. At least u kno shes there for u, cuz she took the trip to ur house to say it rather than just typin it up real kwik. I mean come on, stop being spoiled, seriously. Shes ur best friend, she obviously cares about u.
No since Facebook is a joke and the latest lemming activity for the masses.
sorry but i too have a same problem chick and its worth more than a heart so i made a transplantation
of course it is not rude!!!!!!!!!!! your relationship with your best friend has nothing to do with the ``friends`` of facebook! what she did (the surprise) was something very special and not the common way that all the others would do! http://lidakels.livejournal.com/
No, it is not rude. She did some very nice things for you: 1. She took the time to come over 2. She surprised you which means you were in her good thoughts 3. She came up with a cupcake to honor the day A better question might be, is it rude you didn't receive her well-wishes? Learn to focus on the "good" people do for you and not what you wished they would do for you. It's called "being thankful".
she CAME OVER and threw you a surprise!! that's a big thing! my close friend even didn't do that to me, she just said happy birthday when i met her the next day.... you must be a really special person for your best friend. i think that's why your best friend didn't write on ur wall, to say happy birthday to you on a social network. your best friend wants it to be more special than words. than, text messages, writing on your wall, etc. OR, she wanted to but her internet connection dropped and her cellphone had some problems. :)
who cares...get over it