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Does success equal to exploiting the others?

Does success equal to exploiting the others? After i learned some western and world history, i certainly believe in so. Also i have found that at the place i work, you will get nothing if you don't get cruel. By the way, why many people are taught to love and respect when the natures of human are not like that?

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1. Success is different among people. Some people think it is having a hot wife, big house, and nice cars. Some believe it is having a respectable house, wife, and family. Exploiting people to get what you want is the easy way out, working hard and getting to where you want by your own means is another way out. And the nature or some humans is to be malicious and walk on others. I have met many people in my life that are the complete opposite..
2. It's self-explanatory. Otherwise it is too much to explain due to the diversity of the situations. For instance; if you making money on loans then you exploiting those you loan to. If you employ people, then you are not exploiting unless you pay them unfairly. The rule of thumb is: most multimillionaires stole their first million.
3. You can exploit, but it will come and bite you in the ass years later. All the people in history you read about got short term satisfaction, later most were corrected, look at the whole picture. Humans want instant satisfaction, look at military history those who control their emotions ultimately always win, the one who exploits is easy to control anyway, because of their personality someone behind the scenes is always controlling them.
4. Success in never exploiting others. Success is to have a feeling that u did something. Infact it is the other way round. When edison invented bulb he did not exploit anyone. He failed several times... That too he claims he discovered several ways of doing it wrong...!!! ( Just an example...) Do not confine success or failure for a limited boundary. In relative sense you will never understand the values of LOVE and RESPECT. Your thoughts should be beyond urself. You stop thinking of 'I' 'I' 'I' all the time... You'll surely understand 'Success' better....
5. The natures of a human are not like that? Not true. It depends on who you meant obviously. But to answer the question, success doesn't equal to exploiting others. Classic example, Martin.L.King was a success, he was quite clearly not for exploiting others.