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How do i get over having to make others happy before myself?

Like i have babysat my nephew about 150 times since he was born which was 2 and a half years ago. I am not happy because i have to help my mom or my dad or brother or sister or any of those people. I just can't help it. I want them to be happy but i am trying so hard to help them im not. How do i stop doing this. Is that selfish? I want to help but i want to be happy again. How do i stop doing this?

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1. Realize that the same people you are helping,help you at times. And..,they may not always do it with a skip and a smile. Sometimes it is sacrifice. It's doing something for someone because you love and care about them. And not always because you feel like it.
2. It is not always a choice between making others happy and making yourself happy. Find ways of helping that also make you happy. Suggest to your parents that you are ALWAYS happy to do these things and will do other things when asked but would appreciate some time to do other things.