My birthday is coming up, im afraid no one will wish me a happy birthday?
My birthday is coming up, im not a dork or anything but im new to the school im actually pretty good friends with the populars and im starting to kinda join their group im in 8th grade and theres this thing at my school where people put up signs on your locker. they put like happy birthday cards a poster of your celebrity crush and ballons, all the populars get like 10000 things on their lockers, im scared cause i think ill only get one or 2 or maybe 0 and everyone will know its my birthday because i have a facebook. and when people dont do those things with your locker everyone automaticly things you are a dork. what can i do:? im also worried about the wall posts on facebook i dont think ill get any. and if you dont then people dont rlly talk to you, specially guys because they think you are a dork. what can i doo?? HELP
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- happy birthday. All things are possible in Jesus Christ, do you believe I hope you do, remember all things are possible only in Jesus Christ put him first and you will see amazing things in your life.
- well, from the outside looking in, its really not a big deal. i never had that type of thing when i was in junior high, and i dont get billions of people telling me happy bday. so if you dont get any dont worry about it, or you can just use the excuse your new. hah. dont sweat it tho your loved ones will know, that should be all that matters!
- You could ask what their doing on the weekend. They will probally ask you what your doing. Just give them casual hints. you could say "oh I getting ready for my birthday... or something related to that." Sorry I tried:$
- People will say happy birthday and if they don't then just don't talk about your birthday. But I bet you ANYTHING they will.
- HAPPPPPPPPPPPPPPYY BIRTHHDAYYYY!! I just wanted to wish you a wonderful birthday and you make a lot of peoples' days brighter because you are alive ^-^ (oh and please don't take this as sarcasm because i don't do sarcasm and i really mean happy birthday when i say it) Enjoy another awesome and prosperous year!!!! :D
- Happy Birthday! Hun, there is no reason at all you should feel like a dork because your not getting as much as the "popular kids" At the end of the day your still breathing and God still loves you so don't worry about it! God wishes you a birthday every year and he decorates your heart with a million things a year(not just on your birthday) Material things such as cards are not what's important in life, what's important is God and his creation. Don't worry about guys thinking your a dork. Someday your prince charming will come around if he's not already and he won't care how many cards or comments you get! Be grateful for what you do get! Find real friends! Don't try to fit in, find people that you honestly like and that make you feel good about yourself! And don't worry about what happens on your birthday! You have plenty more days to live! Once again Happy Birthday! (pretty sure it's early cause you said it was coming up) Enjoy your birthday! Smile as much as you can and whisper a thanks to God for letting you live another year!
- okay first off i just want to say that when i was in middle school(high school now) i used to be just like you. i would worry about that stuff. I know you probably wont like this answer cuz to you in that grade you want ppl to think you have friends and you want people to know who you are and that kind of stuff. TRUST ME when i say that it is NOT a big deal. Who cares what they think? I had moved 7 times by the time when I was in 8th grade. Yeah it was tough. Some schools I had tons of true friends, others okay friends, and some schools not many at all. But right now it seems like a big deal to have friends and stuff so I'll help you out. I get it. Okay - i'm sure you have SOME friends so you could try to bring up the convo of ur bday very subtly. Dont say, "so, u gonna wish me a happy b-day?" cuz that's just..weird. You could also write on Facebook, "happy bday to meeee!" my friend Dana did that on her FB and like 30 ppl responded. Hahah but, if things get rlly desperate, you could have ur family make cards or even make them urself and put random ppl's names on them. But seriously, you'll look back on this and think, "wow was I really worried about that?" But I get it so I hope I helped! =D P.S. As long as you have 2 TRUE friends, doesn't matter what anybody else thinks, you'll be fine! P.S.S. I saw where you said, "im actually pretty good friends with the populars and im starting to kinda join their group," BE CAREFUL. Seriously. Been there, done that. Do not seem desperate to join their group. That will get you nowhere. Just a word of advice :) Good luck in high school next year! :) And HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!! x)
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