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think too much and too sensitive when people comment, what should I do?

I live abroad and go home once a year. Most of friends/relatives know I am a very sensitive person and many deal with me very well. But I have few friends/relatives who just try to prick me all the time by passing some comments either on me and or my situation. I see two kinds of people. Type1 is when I go to see them, they do not ask anything about me as they are worried if they ask and I answer it may show I am doing well. So they wont ask anything, but always try to indirectly convince they are doing better than me. Type2 is when they see me it probably reminds them of their failures in life as they are not as successful as me, so they just try to comment on me directly or REG my job or my life aboard saying that "oh you live in UK, means you have to wash your own vessels, clean your own car, what's the point earning there when you cant see your family" etc. These things piss me off a lot. As I only go to pay a courtesy visit and I get all this in return. Please help how to deal.

Public Comments

1. Hello! Or you well tell them how you feel, or you stop going to visit them. Surround yourself from the ppl who love you and know how to deal with you. We only have this life, and the last thing we need is preachers and ppl telling us how to live it. Kiss! and gl on that
2. People love to bitch moan w/e! where a natual race that likes to get off on other peoples misfortunes. Its so sad that were quick to get on our high horse when we are probally very unhappy ourselves. Try to ignore these people because they will beat you in the end, help yourself and prove your worth more. There are to many sad people out there to get upset about :) best of luck and keep yourself to yourself. ;) Ginab xxxxx
3. I gave you a star to make you feel better.