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GUYS: hes irresistable, i could do anything w/him or to him, but..?

well, my bestfriend is this guy ive had a crush on for 4 years but it has never been more than best bids 4 life kinda thing. well, hes going out with this chick and of course, we talk all the time. hes in wrestling, im in basketball so im always seeing him and talking to him bout things he doesnt normally talk about. well, his girlfriend and him, they always fight over everything. she usually starts them and they never end. we regularly see her walking away all depressed and think "oh great, shes gunna go cry in the corner of the spanish room" and eventually, she comes back and then they are happy as can be...for about 3 days, and then it starts over again. now guys, i need u... hes been talking about how girls are emotional and guys are physical, and usually they can balance eachother out. well, she expects him to be emotional all the time and he hardly gets a peck on the lips. (they've been dating 4 7 mths) and ive told him that things will work out, dont force it because u turn out like them. well, i had to tell him about my bad relationships, u no, the kind where u say no but they dont listen kind. ya, those kinds. well, hes still having problems w/her and every night, he practically says im want to break up with her, and he never does. just the other day, i asked him y he wanted to break up with her, but doesnt and he told me that hes had a crush on me ever since we met but could nvr work up the courage to ask me out (grrr!!!) and he told me that he was a fan of my body, that im so hot, and im the coolest person ever. he said that if he could do it again, he would go out with me because im the funnest person to be around and the only person he can truly trust. he said that i would be the better gf. i was in shock, i couldnt believe it and the i spilled everything, wat i thought about him, how things were... just everything. but he still wont break up with her and i asked y again and he said "i guess i kinda like her" wat i would like to no from u guys is wat is going on in his mind? i mean, he said all those things but he "guesses he likes her"? wat am i then, yd he say that? do i have a chance? i dont normally ask these things but theres just something about him that makes him practically irresistable. (all the girls are like "omg i no wat u mean!!" lol) please, give me ur honest answer and i'll give u 10 points!!

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1. My honest answer is for you to be less wordy and you will have his heart.
2. Hes like alot of good guys in that he doesnt want to end a relationship for to go out with someone else cause his morals wont let him i think that something seriously is gonna have to happen an either she is gonna have to dump him or hes gonna have to get plain tired of her because dude probably doesnt want to feel dirty like he dropped a girl just so he could be with another but he really cares about you hes just not sure how to end the relationship with the girl he probly has a little feelings for her after dating her so long and probably respects her enough not to drop her just to go straight to someone else give him some time and be there for him through it all and it will be fine
3. Hes probably just confused and doesn't want his gf to become a total bitch to him after they break up. and im pretty sure you have a good chance with him, i mean what is the worst that could happen? He's ur friend and he would never stop being ur friend.
4. If he admits that he's liked you for a long time, then he still likes you. You have to understand that if he's been going out with a girl for seven months he's got to have at least some emotional investment in her. You can't expect him to just drop her. You should let him know how you feel about his relationship with her and how that relationship isn't healthy and it won't make him happy in the end, because I honestly know it won't. And you should also let him know how you feel so that maybe, if the two of you really do like each other, you two could have be happy together. Have the courage and good luck.
5. He'll break up with her if he knows he has a shot dating you. So, go for t. I mean your single and all. Tell him how you fell.
6. Alright finally its my turn to help you out skilz. This is a obvious case of a guy and girl being friends for so long then they end up together. But its not that simple. He's not going to give her up that easily just to be with you. There is obviously something that she has that makes him tick. So whats going on in his mind? Well hes confused about being with a girl he thought he would be in a good relationship with or his bgf. Im guessing he doesnt want to break her heart by dumping her. You still have a chance of being with him your only a sophomore, you got 2 years left in HS. Heres an idea that may work. You guys probably go to eachothers house. So what you do is come up with a lame exuse like studying at his house, where its just you 2. Around some time get close to him. Follow these lines: skilz: You said you like me right? guy: Yah. (He'll get nervous) skilz: Well if you cant decide between me or her then make the decsion right now. guy: What do you mean? skilz: What i mean is if we kiss right now tell me how you feel. guy: okay (hes etremely nervous but happy that you opening your feelings) [kiss mouth to mouth] skilz: so howd that feel? guy: great I know kinda cheezy, but hey it may work. See by this way now that he has felt your kiss and his current gf's kiss he should know who to pick. And I guarantee you that he'll get the courage to break up with her and be with you. Anyway hope I helped you out