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Guys, you rock! but i need your help!!! 10 points!!!?

well, my bestfriend is this guy ive had a crush on for 4 years but it has never been more than best bids 4 life kinda thing. well, hes going out with this chick and of course, we talk all the time. hes in wrestling, im in basketball so im always seeing him and talking to him bout things he doesnt normally talk about. well, his girlfriend and him, they always fight over everything. she usually starts them and they never end. we regularly see her walking away all depressed and think "oh great, shes gunna go cry in the corner of the spanish room" and eventually, she comes back and then they are happy as can be...for about 3 days, and then it starts over again. now guys, i need u... hes been talking about how girls are emotional and guys are physical, and usually they can balance eachother out. well, she expects him to be emotional all the time and he hardly gets a peck on the lips. (they've been dating 4 7 mths) and ive told him that things will work out, dont force it because u turn out like them. well, i had to tell him about my bad relationships, u no, the kind where u say no but they dont listen kind. ya, those kinds. well, hes still having problems w/her and every night, he practically says im want to break up with her, and he never does. just the other day, i asked him y he wanted to break up with her, but doesnt and he told me that hes had a crush on me ever since we met but could nvr work up the courage to ask me out (grrr!!!) and he told me that he was a fan of my body, that im so hot, and im the coolest person ever. he said that if he could do it again, he would go out with me because im the funnest person to be around and the only person he can truly trust. he said that i would be the better gf. i was in shock, i couldnt believe it and the i spilled everything, wat i thought about him, how things were... just everything. but he still wont break up with her and i asked y again and he said "i guess i kinda like her" wat i would like to no from u guys is wat is going on in his mind? i mean, he said all those things but he "guesses he likes her"? wat am i then, yd he say that? do i have a chance? i dont normally ask these things but theres just something about him that makes him practically irresistable. (all the girls are like "omg i no wat u mean!!" lol) please, give me ur honest answer and i'll give u 10 points!!

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1. im a girl but i wanted to read it haha. well i guess ill answer to that should be okay, umm i think hes confused about yall because he doesnt want to hurt either one of you guys because he likes both of yall. guessing? okay well good luuck,
2. Well thats gotta be frustrating. There is really only one thing I know to tell you. Start courting someone else that you maybe almost like. Make the man choose between you and the other one otherwise he`ll stay with her and use you like a safety net. Then if he picks you you win if he doesn`t atleast you know where you stand.
3. holy shit i have the same problem my best friend has a b/f and shes been gin out with him for like 8 months now... they are always fighting and going on... and i always tell her itll work out... she said that she has liked me since we met but never really could do any more cus of the distance... like 5 towns over... and ive always liked her... but every time she kind of breaks up with him or the other way aroud i have a gf too... so its kind of a loop... but i feel that it will eventually work out if its meant to haooen... the same with u guys... itll work out if its supposed to... theres not much more than that too say