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How do i learn to share with women when back in the days, women didnt like me and never paid attention to me?

In high school growing up i was always the nice guy in school. I was respectful to women and to people in general. Growing up women never paid attention to me UNLESS they wanted something. I never had a girlfriend through high-school, been shot down multiple times i cant even count. Girls were usually dating the jocks/badboys etc. So i just kinda stayed to myself are being rejected, never had that girlfriend or just a good friend (girl) that i can just hang out with or just go out to a movie or talk to about my problems. So i ended up going to school and got two degrees in engineering, moved to a better neighborhood, bought a house, car and a truck and have a good successful job. So now because of this, NOW i have women coming around at work, girls in my old neighborhood asking how i been and asking me to go out to dinner but now that i'm pretty well off. i'm just not going to start showering girls stuff or with anything, no gifts, no flowers, no candy. I don't think its fair that all of a sudden just because i'm bless that girls who turned me down in the past now just expect to receive things. One girl i known for about 10 years, never gave me a chance, never wanted to date me or anything is asking me for $1,000 to cover her rent? She asked me at our high school reunion, she was the girl in school who i really liked and she ended up marrying the jerk, and he left her stuck with 2 kids, doesnt pay child support, doesnt see his kids or no type of financial support, why do women only turn to the good guys when their in need of help?

Public Comments

1. date the hot ones but don't give them $
2. yeah don't give her any money of course, but weren't their fat girls where you went to school, maybe it was you wanting to date out of your league and you left all these girls that would of liked you sitting at home on Saturday night, and maybe they fell the same way about you as you do about the girls that wouldn't date you.
3. cause they regret it! you properly never met any decent women did ya
4. I went through the same thing. After 30 years, I found a woman worth having.
5. I can't explain why a lot of women go after "bad boys" when they're young and then want to settle down with the nice, responsible, financially stable man when they're older. I guess they are short sighted and maybe a bit childish/selfish. I am a woman, just so you know! But I have seen this with some of my friends and with some of my brothers. One thing I think a lot of women are attracted to is confidence. Is it possible you lacked confidence when you were younger, and now that you have achieved success, you have more confidence? That is one answer. Or the women you know from your past or gold diggers. Here's my solution: go out with women who are financially independent. Find a woman who is also an engineer, for instance. Then you don't have to worry that she's just after you for your money.