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Do you think a successful relationship can start out physical?

Notice I said SUCCESSFUL. What's your input on this? Can it actually work out if they started out by getting physical with each other FIRST, then turn it into a relationship? I'm talking about ages 18+.

Public Comments

1. Absolutely . That is how I start every relationship. I had an 18 year marriage that was started that way.
2. The relationships that started as griends first and then dating lasted longer in my book. The physical ones not so much. But thats just one opinion, im sure for some people it has worked out quite well. . .
3. Of course...many relationships start out hot and heavy on the physical side, then grow into something more. Regardless of how it starts, though, the overwhelming majority of romantic relationships do end. Very few last to the point of marriage, and even half of marriages ultimately fail.
4. Lol. Of course. For guys, it's physical the moment he sees you anyway, and it's just a matter of how long it takes for you to go along with it. The relationship develops later. Women usually work backwards and meet in the middle, but I don't know why it couldn't work for them that way, too.
5. Absolutely not. Guys don't want to marry sIuts. They'll do them but they want to marry someone better. He loses all respect for her from day one, nope, that's never going to be a successful relationship.
6. Anything is possible, but it's not likely.
7. I just celebrated my 15th anniversary.
8. With lips like yours, I would say definitely! I would never want to leave them!
9. It might can, but actually one has to be known for whom they are before feel good emotionally relationships can occur. Go get books on building good relationships and get smarter. Also type " Building Good relationships" into the yahoo search box.
10. I don't see why not. Without physical attraction, what brings you together? I'm sure the prudes will try to tell you otherwise, but I can't see any reason that putting out on the first date would ruin it every time.
11. Yes, as long a the both of you continue to communicate, keep spice in your relationship, things will be fine, where is it written or what law say there has to be a time limit when to be physical.....
12. It can, but I think it's not the best situation. I think once you're intimate it's hard to sort out where lust and passion end and true feelings begin. Sex is such a pleasurable thing that it's easy to fall into the routine of using sex to avoid or resolve conflict, to avoid true intimacy, or to avoid getting to know each other. If a couple can put sex into perspective and get to truly know each other, it may be possible to have a successful relationship.
13. yes - but females never want to hear it - it is true - but it only happens to a few if any - the actual sucess is commen ground - commitment - same likes - dislikes - and happyness with just each other only - no games - no drama - just two people madly in love and all that - but it can happen between the right couple - i know a few that have been marryed for years because they gave each other the only thing that mattered most -- each other they didnt base it on this or that - they needed each other like now - it has worked - but far far between now a days its more like if you dont have anything you are a loser - back then we didnt care about if we were a loser or not - we based it soly on being together together - i know sounds simple right ? well in the 70s and 80s it was that simple - i am 46 - i dont ever think i will ever see those days again - and these few people i know are still marryed - even through non sucess they are sticking it out till death as should be
14. Sometimes it does and other times it doesn't. The only thing you should know is that most of the time it turns out like this: If you're a girl you can't help it if you star having feelings for the guy and end up falling for him and if you're a guy at first you only want to get in her pants but as the relation goes you can find your self deeply in love.
15. My wife and myself had been on three dates...one of which we watched her friend's little boy. Our fourth date was Sunday dinner at her house and I never left....it was love at first sight for me...it was physical for her at first.....after about a week of me being there every night she started to change and in a few weeks she was as crazy about me as I was her.... I asked her to smoke some 420 the first time I met her....she wouldn't even give me her phone number...the second time I ran into her she gave it to me but wouldn't agree to a date.....it took several calls....we were 19 years old when we met....three months later we got married...we had turned 20 in the interim. We didn't have a pot to pee in or a window to throw it out of and didn't know what marriage was all about other than we wanted to spend the rest of our lives with each other....we were two lost souls that fit together like pieces of a puzzle...she was exactly what I need in a spouse/partner....and me her also....her strong points are my weaknesses and hers are mine.... We had sex as many as a dozen times a day for the first three months...she got pregnant the night we got married....she had our daughter one day before we were married for nine months......she still lights up my life when she walks into the room.... Her family all live far away...my family wasnT shyt. We learned to depend on each other since we had no one to help and advise us as newlyweds......we have done well and are more happy today than the day we married each other....
16. Yes of course it can. Every relationship starts one way or another, some are successful and some are not. If its meant to be, then it is meant to be. It shouldn't matter on the way it started. You should just look forward on what's going next.