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Girls what kind of relationship do you like better and which is more successful?

I'm just curious, girls what kind of relationship do you like better and which do you think is more successful. The relationship that you get into after you meet a guy/girl at a party/club/the mall/friends house or whatever, or the relationship between two people that have known each other for a little while that slowly builds to a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship between the two?

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1. in my case bro i hope it is the latter...
2. one that builds slowly
3. I can't really say one is better then the other. It just depends. I think that if you know someone for a while that you might know if they're a slut or not. When you meet someone at a bar or club they might have secrets that come out later rather then when you need to know.
4. There might be a slight tendency towards the latter, but its a preferential thing. And don't let anyone tell you either one is more "successful" because there is no reason to think that is necessarily true. Anecdotal evidence is hardly convincing.
5. the relationship between two people that have known each other for a little while that slowly builds to a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship (:
6. The second one. Being in a relationship is a serious business.
7. i think both is about the same. a lot of people would probably say the one where you know each other for awhile, but i disagree. usually people you meet at the mall or where ever you get to know before you go out or get into a relationship with that person. So, i find them pretty much the same. My boyfriend and i met through a a friend and we were friends for about 4 or 5 months then we started going out. We have a great relationship and have been going out for about 7 months now.
8. ive never "known" my bfs for a while b4 we started dating. but i can say based on the lack of success, the guys i dated right away are the ones that let me down.
9. idk but i like the second one right now
10. the second one... a relationship is only going to last a week if you go out with someone you barely know and then realize that you don't like them...
11. slowly builds, definitely. the other never lasts.
12. The one that starts as a friendship and builds into a relationship. They will naturally be more intimate and have more things to talk about, will trust each other more, and are less likely to have fights and a bad past.
13. Know for a while relationship. The meet at the party is more like a hook-up fling. The getting-to-know-and-building-a-relationship seems a lot safer and will last longer because you really know the person. Their likes and dislikes and pet-peeves. Less fight and more connection! It's different in every cases. If you met the right person then it doesn't really matter where you had met them.
14. the best relatinship i think is more succesful is when u know them for a long time and u were friends.tha way u know each and u each other feelings.ur feelings growdeep for each other.
15. I think the slowly building one appeals to me most, because you like the small things the boy does and likes when you meet him, then get larger and larger from there. If something depresses the girl at one point, just continue at life. We can't win em' all ;)
16. i would say that if you did find the person that care for you ,just your heart and nothing more... then you got the right person ...rememberr it don't matter which person as long they are there for you in every way you go or needed her to be on your side forever.ta king it slow is worth a lifetime
17. In my opinion, Dating the guy I meet through something or someone. That way you can build a friendship and a relationship. If you get with a friend first, then you could lose the friendship if you break up.