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Hi yahoo members i have another problem today. I hate my family and i really want to move away from them, I am a grown woman so this is not some teenage runaway situation. I want to move to georgia and i am unemployed. My plan is to get a fuul time and a part time job. Save all the money from my PT job to use for the big move. I want suggestions on how can i do this? I mean how can I balance out working so much and still beind able to spend time with my son. One suggestion is i could work third shift and a part time day shift. So by the time he gets out of school i will be home tired but home. If i could find a weekend position i would be ok or atleast off on the weekend. i know i have alot to figure out but can anyone give me some guidance? Is there any articles or info i can get about budget and saving for a big move? oh yeah i am in charlotte nc.

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1. My mate got a place in UK, Wales, you could stay with him and find part time work here!!!
2. My biggest piece of advice is to make sure you have a job before you move. That's the hardest part of a new location. As for funds to move, try to have six months worth of backup income in the lifestyle you're used to living in case something falls through or you have an unexpected expense. For your son, I would explain to him as much of what your plans are as he would understand and you are willing to share, so that he knows what's up to a certain extent and doesn't feel like you're abandoning him. Good luck!
3. what?
4. why do you have to run away from your problems with your family. Why not work one job and stay where you are but enforce your personal boundaries with them. Even if your parents get on your nerves, it does not seem very fair to deprive your son of their love. No matter how you feel about your parents, you have to agree that they love your son and would miss seeing him and vice versa. Why not think about your son in all of this, you are proposing to work 65 hours a week and if that were not enough, then you plan on ripping him away from his extended family. YOu sound pretty selfish to me. i pity your son